Spidr Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 (edited) You were right TMicheals and HisLove I am going to visit her somewere between April and May. This really made my mind settle down. At least it will be 3 months - visit - 3months - visit Now i started taking lessons to learn her language. She speaks english but her family and most of her friends aren't that good at it. After telling her that, she and her family were so happy. She also offered to pay them for me, but obviously i said no. I noticed that after our visit she is doing her best to find time to speak online. Altough sometimes like yesterday we didn't speak. But I know that she is busy with her studies/work and i understand. Yesterday I was really happy to see myself on her friends Group Blog. They uploaded my photo with her while i visited, saying very nice things. There was a time were i was very doubtful about her hanging out with some guys, but now its different. We talked about living together in future, she said that it will surely happen. But first she needs to finish her course (another year - international Manager) and find a good job to get some money before we start a life. We don't mind where to live, I would be happy to go to her conutry and the same is for her. Altough I have a good job with my father's company. Any ideas on how it is best to be done and planned? Sometimes I find it a bit too long to wait that much. I guess its becuase I never was in this situation. Thanks for all your help Edited February 21, 2008 by Spidr Link to post Share on other sites
HisLove Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 That is such great news Spidr I only cope because I have to lol. But the way it works best for me is not to dwell on it and keep busy busy busy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Spidr Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 (edited) yes its true....i am trying to fill my time with things that i always wanted to do. The problem is that sometimes I find myself thinking that while I am away she will be online trying to talk to me. Becuase it happened. Altough she was ok with that, for me it would have been better if that time was spent speaking with her. So sometimes I find myself waiting and when she could not be online it would be for nothing. Edited February 21, 2008 by Spidr Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 yes its true....i am trying to fill my time with things that i always wanted to do. The problem is that sometimes I find myself thinking that while I am away she will be online trying to talk to me. Becuase it happened. Altough she was ok with that, for me it would have been better if that time was spent speaking with her. So sometimes I find myself waiting and when she could not be online it would be for nothing. Ahhhh... that's always the problem with chatting on-line. Been there, experienced that lots of times, too. The best thing, especially if you're dealing with different time zones, is to establish a mutually-agreeable time that you "meet up" on-line to chat. That way, both of you can plan your schedule around getting together. She can take care of her studies -- you can keep busy and be out and about -- and neither of you will have to worry about missing each other and feeling bad that you did. So glad to hear things are going so well for you, Spidr! Three months? That will pass in a heartbeat, and you and your angel will be back together, again. Best, TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
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