sptu Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 hey to everyone!!!weeeell my news..i booked the tickets, the hotel, and 4 days ago we spoke, and i got veeeery angry with him. as a result, he said "ok, dont come!!!". i closed the phone, and next day i send on msn a message asking for sorry as i shouldnt close like that and he said ok, thanks for the sorry but i dont want to speak with you!!!!!and till then, no news!!!!i dont know what to do.. he made me angry as he doesnt say the things that i would like. i know i am selfish probably but i am planning to go there alone and he doesnt make me feel secure. anyway, i will go as i have already booked everything. but should i try to contact him now?!?!i have 3 weeks till the day that i am leaving.. Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Seems to me, sptu, that you and your b/f have a fair amount of disagreements. I don't know if this is because it's because you and your b/f aren't compatible, your b/f is too busy with school to deal with your demands, or because the relationship is over. You've already made and paid for your travel plans -- which, if I remember correctly, were supposed to be so you could check into housing arrangements for when you start your studies in July. So, go and do that -- and leave your b/f alone. Given your past behavior, he won't expect you to be that strong and independent. Show him you aren't clinging and clawing at him all the time, and that your own life, and education, is something that is important (as it should be), to YOU. The fact that you are getting a handle on your own life will be good for both of you. And, it just might be the thing that makes him re-think resuming his relationship with you, come July. Best, TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
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