goodbyelove Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 hello everyone my problem is that i am very skinny... i am 26 years old, 5'5 tall and weigh only 108 pounds. the only good thing about body is that i have a fuller face and broad shoulders which doesnt make me look very petite but rest all is skinny arms: skinny legs: okay, do wear skirts ass: zero, none at all shows when i wear denims. i feel so bad about this, i have withdrawn from most of my friends also as some or the other used to point out something.. i dont go out much, b coz i feel like everybody is staring at my non-existent ass. i spend most holidays at home - doing stuff that doesnt involve people- like watching tv and movies, painting, reading etc i mostly am glued to my office at work, dont socialise much as somebody or the other somtimes comments that 'you need to eat more'.. i hate that comment. i never comment on anybody who is fat, then why should people comment on me? i am otherwise healthy and have no eating problem, i eat everything - sometimes double cheese sandwiches twice a day! dark choclate desserts etc anytime. i even take milk 2 times a day with protein supplement. but nothing helps me to gain any weight. maybe i do not want to gain much as i am healthy and not sick, but bcoz of my ass i am too conscious to go out.. can you please give me advice about what kindof clothes i could wear which shall hide my non-existent ass atleast. i only wear full sleeves. hope i am not becoming a laughing stock on this forum this is giving me low self-esteem letely Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Please don't be so hard on yourself. Everybody has something that they dislike about their physical appearance, unless they are narcisstic. Instead of focusing on what you think isn't perfect try to see what is great about your body. If you have great legs wear shorter skirts. If you have a tiny waist wear slim-fitting tops and it will make your hips look wider. Women are catty. Do the men say anything about your figure? No probably not. You don't have a weight problem and many women do. You can eat whatever you'd like. Lots of women can't do that. Sometimes you have to consider the source of the comments too. Maybe there is nothing wrong with you, but with those making the comments instead? Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 I have the serious hots for skinny girls. Especially ones that are confident enough to show off that they're skinny. Having an ass is not very important at all. Try to realize that tons of men will find you attractive and tons of women are jealous.... especially the ones that tell you to eat more. Link to post Share on other sites
ibitealil Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 i am 27, same height as urs and 110pounds...all my gf's are jealous of me...and they say god u r so skinny when they feel jealous..its in my genes..my mom weighed same as u when she was at my age...after she gave birth to my big brother :-D my friends r all getting fat when they r growing older and im not..petite women look younger as well...of course i have problems inside me that i wished some parts of me were bigger but with men i never had problems cuz of that...look at the bright side...any clothes u wear suits u compared to overweight people..just pick the dress that shows ur good parts :-) dont think too much about what others think..important is how u feel about urself..its all in ur head :-) u eat healthy, u feel healthy and u have a personality, so hey you r beautiful! Link to post Share on other sites
spookie Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 You've probably heard this before, but you have no idea how lucky you are. I LOVE food! But what happens when I eat it in the quantities I want? I grow a gut! Even if I control my portions AND exercise, I can't get as "skinny" as I want. Look around you. Who do we idolize? Skinny chicks. View it as a blessing. As far as the ass goes, squats are great. And make sure to eat plenty of protein. Link to post Share on other sites
ash519 Posted February 27, 2008 Share Posted February 27, 2008 I am 5'8", 120lbs. I am thin, and I hear about it...but I embrace it. Like ibitealil said, our friends are getting a bit heavier and we are staying skinny mini and women get jealous of that. I have a decent butt, guys like it, but i am a 32a bust size which bothers me. Everyone has there insecurities. Embrace who you are! Link to post Share on other sites
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