HisLove Posted February 25, 2008 Share Posted February 25, 2008 I guess my point was that unless you have a face or other indentifying marks (tattoo, say) in the photograph - then how can anybody prove that the picture is of you? Now I did know a girl once who foolishly made some, um, videos...and the exboyfriend then sold them on the internet. This is somewhat different to unidentifiable photos though. But yeah, I wouldn't send out without having some sent to me FIRST. Tit for tat if necessary. Pardon the pun lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cherry Blossom 35 Posted February 25, 2008 Author Share Posted February 25, 2008 Yeah, good points everyone. I have thought of the revenge factor, and it does creep me out a bit. Who would do that? Well, some people would. But really there are no identifying factors, i.e. tatoos or such. I think that my radar has gone off. I just feel uncomfortable with the whole thing and I need to just say no, as Nancy Reagan famously said. Besides, I've already sent him a couple. How many does he need already, it's the same thing over and over! He keeps saying things in his emails like "I'm really falling for you" and "I think about you all the time". He also said that he has spent so much time thinking about our time together that he feels like we've been together a lot longer than we actually have. Honestly, I don't see how someone could do that much thinking about me when we have not spent that much time together. I just feel as though he is a bit obsessed and it's starting to creep me out. I'm feeling more and more like I just want to cut it off. I'm not paranoid about the pictures, just a little uneasy. I hope he doesn't use them against me, but if he does, I do have a little information on him too. Yikes! I don't know how I got into this mess. Ah well, at least I'm living right? Link to post Share on other sites
jessicarabbit Posted March 13, 2008 Share Posted March 13, 2008 My advice is to wait until you are in a commited relationship with this guy before you start sending nude pictures. It will make you feel alot more comfortable if the pictures are being sent to your boyfriend, rather than some guy you are trying to please. I do it with my boyfriend all the time, because we only get to see each other every three months so I gotta give him something! So I say, if the guy is really into you then he can wait until you are in a commited relationship, and he should be understanding of that. Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 My advice is to wait until you are in a commited relationship with this guy before you start sending nude pictures. It will make you feel alot more comfortable if the pictures are being sent to your boyfriend, rather than some guy you are trying to please. I do it with my boyfriend all the time, because we only get to see each other every three months so I gotta give him something! So I say, if the guy is really into you then he can wait until you are in a commited relationship, and he should be understanding of that. You "gotta give your boyfriend something?" Or, what? Lose him? If that's the case, you ought to be questioning what your relationship is all about. Two people that truly care for each other don't want to cause each other pain, embarassment, or think it's okay to force the other to comply just to meet their own needs. The OP was talking about not feeling comfortable sending nude pics to her b/f. If she's not comfortable, she has every right to say so, and to expect someone that truly loves her won't love her any less for saying so. Best, TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
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