colorblind18 Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Me and my bf have been dating for 4 months, overall we have an awesome relationship, we see eachother daily, talk on the phone for hours and what not. We've had our ups and downs, first with his ex that he clearly still had feelings for but managed to get over them, then with me thinking I got pregnant and other things. When I first met him, he was playing hard to get, and trying to make me jealouse by joking with a friend of mine and telling her stuff like "You look good with that shirt on but I bet you'll look better with it off". The girl is pretty, everyone says so, he now denies it and says she is gross but I doubt he really feels that way when there are 234234234 men out there who say they'd so bang her. Today he told me he had a dream about wanting to have sex with her and I totally flipped... because of the past jokes, and because if they would actually do it I would be extremely hurt and I doubt there could be anything else that would hurt me more. I avoided speaking to him all day and he got angry and told me I have no right to be upset and that he's disappointed in me :| while I just need time to relax and think about it... he blames me for not being able to study and I swear at this point it doesn't mean anything to me. I've gotten to the point where I need to consider where this is going and if I can get past this. I know he didn't cheat but it feels like he did... I just needed to get this off my mind and hear what others think, thank you for listening. Link to post Share on other sites
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