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I tend to attract women with tons of issues and especially married women and women looking to be with a married man. I don't know what it is about me that attracts people looking for an affair because I refuse to ever get involved with that but it is what I attract.

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...and a lot of high school boys. I'm 20, but I look like I'm 15...not always a good thing.

 

Ugh... I get that too but even more severe. I'm 26, look like I'm 18 and 15-16 year old girls are hitting on me. :sick: And they're the kind that aren't subtle about it at all...

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A mixed bunch over the years, I'm 6-3, 210 lbs, and it seems the smaller women like that, generalising here I know, but thats my exp.

 

The ones who said why came out with, my voice, my smell :sick:? Maybe.....

 

The nicest thing any one said was that "He's not exactly Robert Redford......"

I laughed my leg off at that one. I bear no resemblance to Mr Redford, I do however bear a striking resemblance to another movie star,

I am a pink version of Shrek.

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PurpleBetty

I seem to attract either semi nerdy-semi arty guys with communication difficulties, or men aged 40+ with slight alcohol problems.

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I seem to attract either semi nerdy-semi arty guys with communication difficulties, or men aged 40+ with slight alcohol problems.

 

Ooooeerrrrr! :eek:

 

Its Ireland, what do you expect? :)

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As far as I know only two girls have liked me. They were both about twice my weight with emotional baggage. The most recent one was a cutter...

 

I like the cute girls that have fun outgoing personalities.

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Trialbyfire

Okay, okay, I'll admit it. I attract men who breathe. It's one of my positive assets, in that I'm no necrophiliac.

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I attract the outsider's of society, the emo's, the goth,s the metal girl and the punk rocker's, most of them are a bit strange, but like that's a concern, no it becomes a concern when I realise they are mentally unstable and could murder me at any given second.

 

I also attract the girls that society doesn't wish to have, I'm fortunate in some instances and in most cases deeply unfortunate.

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Serial killers dig me......

 

nah - nobody does.

 

Super drunk dudes seem kinda interested. :cool:

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PinkKittyKat

It depends, really. When I'm dressed up all gothy in black with lace and stripy socks, I either tend to attract pretentious gothy, arty douchebags, or REALLY ultra-normal looking guys.

There's not a lot of in-between.

When I am wearing just blue jeans and a shirt, It's mostly just the normal average looking guys.

Never ugly, just brown eyes, brown hair, jeans, t-shirt....

You know the type, the guys you can never remember if their names are John, or Chris, or Mike, or where you even met them.:o

 

I'm currently dating a guy who looks like no guy who would ever hit on me. I was SHOCKED when I realised he liked me, because he's very business casual and professional looking. And he started pursuing when I was all "gothed up". :p

 

I guess sometimes you can get so fixated on the type of people who usually hit on you, that you don't notice when someone of a different "type" does! :rolleyes:

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tbf is attracting my kind of men. :mad:

 

I used to attract older guys. And when I say old I mean mouldy smelling.

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When I am wearing just blue jeans and a shirt, It's mostly just the normal average looking guys.

Never ugly, just brown eyes, brown hair, jeans, t-shirt....

You know the type, the guys you can never remember if their names are John, or Chris, or Mike, or where you even met them.:o

Eh thats kind of cold. I'm an average looking guy, brown eyes, brown hair a little below average in height.

 

Do we leave such an impression that girls don't even really notice us? Should I color my hair or something?

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Trialbyfire
tbf is attracting my kind of men. :mad:

Don't be hating. I can't help attracting air breathers. Sorry. :(

 

Add in the ones who are capable of thought process and it's all over for me.

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Eh thats kind of cold. I'm an average looking guy, brown eyes, brown hair a little below average in height.

 

Do we leave such an impression that girls don't even really notice us? Should I color my hair or something?

 

Not necessarily. The guys I am talking about are not generally distinctive in ANY way. Average facial features, no distinguishing characteristics, very "blend into the crowd".

 

I notice if a guy has an easy to recognise face, a big nose, or sharp jaw, or something. It's not just the hair/eye colour that does it. It's a GENERAL averageness that reminds me of every other average looking guy out there. Usually they are pretty cute/hot/whatever, just very normal.

 

It's not cold, exactly, but it is hard for me to remember faces/names anyway, without having to figure out if this guy is John/Chris/Mike who I met on the bus/at the bar/at a concert... I meet and know a lot of people, and I've been told I'm fairly easy to remember (neon coloured hair does that). So my life is usually a random person saying, "Hey, PinkKittyKat! How are you!?" and then my brain does this mad dash trying to figure out who this person is. Any sort of distinguishing characteristic helps me immensely.

Sorry if you felt slighted by my post... :confused:

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Sorry. :(
I forgive you. As long as it's just the two of us, there should be no problem. :p Edited by Nevermind
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Not necessarily. The guys I am talking about are not generally distinctive in ANY way. Average facial features, no distinguishing characteristics, very "blend into the crowd".

 

I notice if a guy has an easy to recognise face, a big nose, or sharp jaw, or something. It's not just the hair/eye colour that does it. It's a GENERAL averageness that reminds me of every other average looking guy out there. Usually they are pretty cute/hot/whatever, just very normal.

 

It's not cold, exactly, but it is hard for me to remember faces/names anyway, without having to figure out if this guy is John/Chris/Mike who I met on the bus/at the bar/at a concert... I meet and know a lot of people, and I've been told I'm fairly easy to remember (neon coloured hair does that). So my life is usually a random person saying, "Hey, PinkKittyKat! How are you!?" and then my brain does this mad dash trying to figure out who this person is. Any sort of distinguishing characteristic helps me immensely.

Sorry if you felt slighted by my post... :confused:

It's more of an issue for me because I am average and struggling to get positivly noticed by girls. I have nothing against you, but if others think the same way, it sheds a little light on my situation.

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It's more of an issue for me because I am average and struggling to get positivly noticed by girls. I have nothing against you, but if others think the same way, it sheds a little light on my situation.

 

You must remember that PKK's opinion is only representative of her, I'd image there are other women and men who think like she does, but you cannot change who you are, you need to learn to accept you as you are.

 

Everyone has their own set of characteristics that shine through and there are plenty of women who will be ignorant to them, but there will be that one woman who see's them for what they are; and in her eyes, you won't be an ordinary person, but someone special.

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I am not effeminate but I'm not a super masculine guy, either. Because of this, I think women tend to see me as cute and charming, as opposed to rugged and dominant. Women who seek safe relationships often end up giving me attention because they assume that I'm probably 'safer' than some jock type. For some reason, I have noticed that aggressive women are into me. Women who are seen as a bit zany, wild, outspoken and assertive tend to seek me out. As I tend to be a bit reserved at first, I guess they see me as a challenge and try to get me to open up.

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Trialbyfire
I am not effeminate but I'm not a super masculine guy, either. Because of this, I think women tend to see me as cute and charming, as opposed to rugged and dominant. Women who seek safe relationships often end up giving me attention because they assume that I'm probably 'safer' than some jock type. For some reason, I have noticed that aggressive women are into me. Women who are seen as a bit zany, wild, outspoken and assertive tend to seek me out. As I tend to be a bit reserved at first, I guess they see me as a challenge and try to get me to open up.

I find you obviously masculine but not over-the-top, beer chugging, farting and burping...errr...stereotypical... masculine.

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