heartbrokenz28 Posted July 3, 2003 Share Posted July 3, 2003 Alright, me and my girlfriend of four months just broke up last night but for the third time. The first time she broke up with me she said she didnt want anybody going into college...but we talk things out and get back together a week later. After 2 months of everything going great she decides she needs some space, and i give her the space she needs..we dont talk for a while and 2 weeks later we get back together. Now it has been just a month and she says its just time. Here lately she has just become really distant and not talking as much and everytime I ask her if something is wrong she says nohtings wrong. I tell her that something is obviously wrong and she needs to think of how we are now and think of how we were perfect a week ago and then by the time I get home she says she thinks we should break up. She is oging to college in the fall and Im really care for this girl, and I hate to see her go..I feel like I should try and get her bac but I mean the girl has dumped me 3 times. I have read a few posts on here and I have seen this story a few times.. where the guy treats her like a queen and she feels like she just needs space. I would definately change if i could get her back, but i want to know what somebodys elses opinion is, so please give me some advice... Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 3, 2003 Share Posted July 3, 2003 I always feel that if a relationship is meant to be it will happen. I also believe a lady who keeps changing her mind about me is somebody I don't want to be around. I don't think it's being kind to yourself to allow somebody to jerk your feelings around like this girl has done. Leave her alone and don't go back after her. You won't have to keep going back for somebody who really loves and cares for you and who WANTS to be in a relationship with you. Life is way too short to put yourself through that kind of aggravation. You just don't need that. Back off and move on with your life. Don't ever chase this lady again. That's a game for the immature. Be very leary if she approaches you to get back together. Don't make it too easy for her. Frankly, I think you can do better. Ask yourself why you want somebody who jerks your chain so much and keeps your life on edge. I promise you, you eventually get sick and tired of that kind of treatment. Just end it now and insist on having somebody on your life who is stable and who will show you that you are special and wanted in her life. Link to post Share on other sites
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