Jess-Belle Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 I think Jess was directing that at moi She is determined to make his decision to move out MY fault it seems. That's not what I said, so keep spinning :lmao: By the way, you didn't answer my questions about whether you'd consider it fair game for a woman to do as you did in relation to your marriage. But not to worry, silence speaks volumes... Jess, as I'd say to any BS, the women you are posting to here are not YOUR OW, so it's misdirected IMHO Well you were asking all incredulously about the rationale of the other side, so I explained it. I mean, this is a forum for posting, isn't it? I wasn't directing my comment at you specifically, but at the countless OW on here who are enduring just that. Or am I just hallucinating all those threads of heartbroken OW who got kicked to the curb? The cold hard fact is, that happens the majority of the time. If that isn't enough to point out that the OW is, at the end, a non-issue to the relationship equation itself, I'm not sure what is. Link to post Share on other sites
Jess-Belle Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 YOU ROCK, JESS!!! Thank you Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 finding out MM was still having sex with his wife, while desperately trying every manipulative means possible to have me allll to himself, disgusted me beyond all reason. So was this MM the one you caught the STD from? Link to post Share on other sites
Jess-Belle Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 So was this MM the one you caught the STD from? No, I didn't catch an STD from MM. I caught it from the OW my bf was involved with, at a much later date. Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 By the way, you didn't answer my questions about whether you'd consider it fair game for a woman to do as you did in relation to your marriage. But not to worry, silence speaks volumes... I wasn't directing my comment at you specifically, but at the countless OW on here who are enduring just that. Or am I just hallucinating all those threads of heartbroken OW who got kicked to the curb? The cold hard fact is, that happens the majority of the time. If that isn't enough to point out that the OW is, at the end, a non-issue to the relationship equation itself, I'm not sure what is. I didn't answer because I actually have a life, I'm not here to answer your posts at all times and as you don't seem to GET IT - I am not or have been an OW Link to post Share on other sites
Jess-Belle Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 I didn't answer because I actually have a life, I'm not here to answer your posts at all times and as you don't seem to GET IT - I am not or have been an OW :lmao: OK. Let's say you weren't an OW. Would you consider it fair game for a new woman to dabble with your husband while he's moved out of the house and you're still married? Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 :lmao: OK. Let's say you weren't an OW. Would you consider it fair game for a new woman to dabble with your husband while he's moved out of the house and you're still married? STILL wouldn't/won't be happening, so I don't have to ponder the question do I ? So here's a question for you - do you consider yourself an OW or a BS or both ? Link to post Share on other sites
Jess-Belle Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 STILL wouldn't/won't be happening, so I don't have to ponder the question do I ? So here's a question for you - do you consider yourself an OW or a BS or both ? How would it not be happening? Do you plan on never being married, or ever being in any kind of relationship where you live with a man? I consider myself an OW, a BS (well, former for both of those), and biggest of all, a recovering cheater/relationship addict. Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 How would it not be happening? Do you plan on never being married, or ever being in any kind of relationship where you live with a man? I consider myself an OW, a BS (well, former for both of those), and biggest of all, a recovering cheater/relationship addict. So is it part of your recovery to try to forcefully pigeonhole others into the same position you now find yourself in? Link to post Share on other sites
Jess-Belle Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 So is it part of your recovery to try to forcefully pigeonhole others into the same position you now find yourself in? I know, I know. Everyone say it along with me, the OW mantra: "Every situation is different". :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
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