sports1 Posted July 3, 2003 Share Posted July 3, 2003 well I finally told this girl that I like her and her comments were... "ok, right now i'm just enjoying have a summer with my friends since i dunno if we'll really have very many chances for us to all be together.... and i don't really think i should get into anything since i am going to college soon... maybe we should just keep it like a co-worker/friendly thing.... sorry " so do consider that a blow off type of comment or if weren't for college I might have had a chance? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 4, 2003 Share Posted July 4, 2003 I think you should take it that she is not interested. If a woman is really turned on by a guy, she will find a way...even if she's on her way to heaven. Don't take it personally. There's a lady out there for you, I promise...just not this one and that's OK. You're lucky she was very honest and didn't lead you on. Send her some flowers for doing that. Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted July 4, 2003 Share Posted July 4, 2003 Translation "ok, right now i'm just enjoying have a summer with my friends since i dunno if we'll really have very many chances for us to all be together.... and i don't really think i should get into anything since i am going to college soon... maybe we should just keep it like a co-worker/friendly thing.... sorry " I have zero interest in dating you, and even less interest in becoming close friends. You are a co-worker to me, that is it, and I want to keep my options open for other guys who I like better, am more attracted to, etc. Please don't ever mention this again, and I will be sure to say "hello" to you when I see you, but do not get your hopes up and do not ever expect anything more. (Sorry, but "busy" and "college" are very common excuses.) Link to post Share on other sites
zman Posted July 6, 2003 Share Posted July 6, 2003 Wow, this site is great. You can come here and get translations of what men and women are really saying to each other between the lines. Link to post Share on other sites
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