my lovesick life could be a great TV show...(please respond)

[kiki]

alright, where do i start? i'm 23 and he's 21. i went to school in the state of massachussets. just got out of a really bad relationship. met him, couldn't stand him. feel in love, ironically. a week before i moved away to chicago, i got into a car accident, which extended my stay. the energy between us was magic and we discovered that our souls were connected. soul mates. heartbroken and lovesick, i move to chicago. three months later, he visits and a month later moves there to be with me. btw, he slept with his ex. it was a one time slip up. i get fired from my job. i get very depressed. things are alright with him, but we fight a lot, yet still love each other. i tell my very strict parents about him (i've never told them about any boyfriends). they freak out, demand keys to my apartment, dig through my personal items and try to control everything. i end up extremely depressed and in a mental hospital. he visits me every day for four hours giving me support. the day i get out of the hospital, it's too much to deal with my parents. i leave my car, my apartment and all of my belongings and we get a train ticket to mass. we get out there and fight more and more. we break up and get back together several times. many horrible and mean things were said to each other. until it finally gets to be so much that i get an airplane ticket to go back to chicago. the day i leave i see him and many tears were cried. we tell each other that we still love each other and anything is possible for the future. i could move somewhere else or i could return to mass after a few weeks. we could get back together or the relationship could evolve into a friendship. so here i am, wondering what to do? any advice at all?

[Shirley]

alright, where do i start? i'm 23 and he's 21. i went to school in the state of massachussets. just got out of a really bad relationship. met him, couldn't stand him. feel in love, ironically. a week before i moved away to chicago, i got into a car accident, which extended my stay. the energy between us was magic and we discovered that our souls were connected. soul mates. heartbroken and lovesick, i move to chicago. three months later, he visits and a month later moves there to be with me. btw, he slept with his ex. it was a one time slip up. i get fired from my job. i get very depressed. things are alright with him, but we fight a lot, yet still love each other. i tell my very strict parents about him (i've never told them about any boyfriends). they freak out, demand keys to my apartment, dig through my personal items and try to control everything. i end up extremely depressed and in a mental hospital. he visits me every day for four hours giving me support. the day i get out of the hospital, it's too much to deal with my parents. i leave my car, my apartment and all of my belongings and we get a train ticket to mass. we get out there and fight more and more. we break up and get back together several times. many horrible and mean things were said to each other. until it finally gets to be so much that i get an airplane ticket to go back to chicago. the day i leave i see him and many tears were cried. we tell each other that we still love each other and anything is possible for the future. i could move somewhere else or i could return to mass after a few weeks. we could get back together or the relationship could evolve into a friendship. so here i am, wondering what to do? any advice at all?

 

Hi!

 

You two just love each other and don't know how to deal with it. You are trying to stay in control of your feelings and it's not working. First, you will need to stop letting your parents demand things from you. This is something that can only involve you and your boyfriend. If you listen to anyone else, things just get more confusing. So try to open up with your feelings. And don't give in to your fears.