dreamergrl Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 When I first joined I had posted about a recent break up. Since then, I have been moving on - however, my ex I believe has some serious issues - and he is causes me so much grief. When I started moving on I had gotten a call from his family - he had managed to land himself in jail - for 4th degree burglary (Okay he never did crap like that during our relationship) - and wanted me of all people to sign bail. I refused, after endless calls from various people he knows. Eventually he finds someone to post bail for him. He gets out and lashes out at me for not doing it - why he thought I would after the stunt he pulled is beyond me. I continue on with moving on, however, he just doesn't let go. He started posting blogs about me on myspace, inviting my ex before him to leave comments and also write a blog completely trashing me. Now my other ex and I broke up because he physically abused me. The recent ex had been calling me and harrassing me, as well as my family. I had to put my profile on private because I actually fear him contacting my friends and what not. I'm over him, but it's making me so angry that he's continuing to cause problems. I know that I'm not a bad person, but I hate that all this is going on. I started to date, and am dating a VERY nice man who has all the qualities that I'm looking for, and while we are taking things slow, I have confidence that it will be a very positive relationship for me. While at first I was worried that he was just another guy looking for fun, since then he's done those little things that prove that it's not like that. In the back of my mind though, I fear that some how my ex is going to figure out who I am dating and say some not so great things about me. Why do people behave like this post break up? When do they stop? Link to post Share on other sites
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