sveltskye Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 So I was kind of retarded last night, I actually feel kind of bad about it. I went to a club and hung out with a couple guys I met there. One of the two really liked me and was dancing with me but I just got out of a relationship a month ago and at first I was having fun but then I felt like we were dancing too sexy and he kept tryingto kiss me and I felt uncomfortable. But I felt bad rejecting him or anything so I assured him I liked him and gave him my number even though I didn't really see anything going on after the club. I'm only in the kind of place right now where I'd give someone I really liked a chance if they went really slow, and this guy seemed kind of dumb and didn't seem to respect the boundaries I was suggesting. Anyways, I just ended up feeling like a slut and a bad person kind of for both leading him on and getting in that position. But now I'm wondering- should I just ignore if he calls? Or should I give him some kind of explanantion. I hope I don't run into him again. Link to post Share on other sites
NuTuDating Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 Give him an explanation. Link to post Share on other sites
SoStupid Posted March 7, 2008 Share Posted March 7, 2008 So I was kind of retarded last night, I actually feel kind of bad about it. I went to a club and hung out with a couple guys I met there. One of the two really liked me and was dancing with me but I just got out of a relationship a month ago and at first I was having fun but then I felt like we were dancing too sexy and he kept tryingto kiss me and I felt uncomfortable. But I felt bad rejecting him or anything so I assured him I liked him and gave him my number even though I didn't really see anything going on after the club. I'm only in the kind of place right now where I'd give someone I really liked a chance if they went really slow, and this guy seemed kind of dumb and didn't seem to respect the boundaries I was suggesting. Anyways, I just ended up feeling like a slut and a bad person kind of for both leading him on and getting in that position. But now I'm wondering- should I just ignore if he calls? Or should I give him some kind of explanantion. I hope I don't run into him again. Give him and explanation.. Express you just got out of a relationship and you aren't too sure if you ready to make the next step. Just be honest and upfront about the way you feel, YOU are NOT a slut or a BAD PERSON! You didn't go home with him silly! Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
T-town Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 If you don't want to answer the phone, then don't. You don't owe him anything you don't even know him...it's really no big deal. Link to post Share on other sites
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