sxy_crazy Posted July 6, 2003 Share Posted July 6, 2003 Hey, I'm kind of new with this thing so bear with me. I hope it works. hehe. ok... I've liked this guy for a little while. We hang out a lot, but usually with like one or two other people (Most of my friends are guys). Sometimes, we will end up looking in each other's eyes for a few seconds and then end up looking away. When we talk, we talk for hours. Sometimes he brushes against me, or plays w/ my stuff. But, sometimes, he talks about other girls and this has me thinking a bit. I am really bad at picking up hints of people liking me, therefore, as a result, I haven't had a bf for a while. I also have a hard time interpreting what these things mean. Do you think he considers me just as a really good friend or could it be something more? thanks for helping! Link to post Share on other sites
zman Posted July 6, 2003 Share Posted July 6, 2003 So do you like this guy? Do you want him to ask you out? Or do you just want to know if he likes you purely for informational purposes. If a guy is willing to talk for hours with a girl, I think it's fairly safe to say he likes you and is attracted to you. He might be shy and wondering the same thing about you, whether you like him as a friend or more. Eventually someone has to take a chance and ask someone out, and then say how much you enjoy the other person's company, and you're attracted to them. If you keep smiling and talking and flirting, and touching him, maybe give him a hug, he should eventually respond. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted July 6, 2003 Share Posted July 6, 2003 just because a guy talks to you for hours, doesn't mean he likes you as more than a friend. i have many guy-friends i'll talk to for hours but i'm not interested in them as men. so, i agree with the previous post - be a lil more flirty, more touchy, and watch his reaction. Perhaps ask about what he looks for in a girl... etc. Basically give him chances to make a move, but don't make the move yourself. good luck! -yes Link to post Share on other sites
PurpleAngel Posted July 27, 2003 Share Posted July 27, 2003 Normally guys ask you OUT if they like you! That’s a good sign. Has he ever given you indication of wanting to see you alone and go on a date or something? I think its irrelevant whether he likes you or not NOW, if he wants you to know that he likes you HE WILL!!! Give him a hint that IF he should ask you out he would not be rejected! I agree with zman and yes, flirt and stuff! OR.............................. You could always just ask! JOKE! he he he Good Luck ~PurpleAngel~ Link to post Share on other sites
skotup Posted July 28, 2003 Share Posted July 28, 2003 u talk for hours alone, feel like u cant talk to him when others are around - classic case of emotional affair. Link to post Share on other sites
t_rades Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 Imagine a guy in your shoes...that's me....and i do like, what would be in my case, the girl. I could just as easily play the role of the guy in your case. Really, i think he does like you but not willing to risk the friendship if it turns out that you didn't like him. Please, i beg you, for the sake of all the guys like me, send him some clearer messages. No longer beat around the bush; drop some hints large enough to put a nice size dent i the floor. I know that's what would help me out right now, some quarter-ton hints landing inches from my feet. And if you use language like "you're like a brother to me" or "i'm glad we can have such a close relationship without it being weird"...STOP! The last thing a fool in love needs is some counterproductive phrases to set him off course. If you follow some of those guidelines, he will feel more confident about asking you out. It just sounds like he wants to preserve the friendship given that you turn him down. When he knows that the friendship will not decrease by asking you out, we will. -----------------------------------------------TIM-------------------------------- Link to post Share on other sites
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