Neo Posted July 6, 2003 Share Posted July 6, 2003 I have been talking to this girl (we are both 16) for quite some time now, and the other day, during a casual discussion, we had talked about what we liked to see in the opposite sex. She said she wanted to marry rich so she wouldn't have to work, and that she absolutely despises sex (more specifically, she thinks the ah, member is gross and that she would never want to get near one). Lately she has also proved signs of irresponsibility around me (losing her parents' credit card, breaking a mirror of her car by some fluke braking accident when she had stopped to view some "hot guy her friend pointed out"). Well that last bit is fairly irrelevant to my question, but I am looking for a long-term relationship and I always consider if my interest would be suitable for marriage down the road as a possibility (as in, would this relationship be worth pursuing as long-term). Should I view this as a problem that she seems to want to marry rich? I mean I myself would like to marry someone who is financially stable to begin with (as in, not rolling around in dirt who would end up leeching), but marrying rich just for the sake of such bothers me. That and her views of sex also seem problematic. I am not interested in a person just for sex but I view it more as an important side-activity. Is she being immature? Am I? Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted July 7, 2003 Share Posted July 7, 2003 isn't 16 a BIT too young to be thinking about marriage?? what she says about marriage now is irrelevant to how she's going to see it by the time she's getting married. just relax & have fun! If you like her, date her... keep it mind it likely won't be forever. If you don't like her, just don't date her... What's the problem here? good luck, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
PurpleAngel Posted July 7, 2003 Share Posted July 7, 2003 I[color=violet][font=arial] agree yes… 16, WOW… I was still playing hopscotch at that age.. Have fun; don’t be thinking about such serious things now… what for? Enjoy life, there is plenty of time to get serious and trust me in 10 years you will be wishing you could go back to that age of fun and a life without problems. Don’t start creating problems that are not there. Neither of you can know what you want at that age. Look, perhaps I am wrong and in fact you could be a very mature 16 year old, but let me tell you, I knew nothing at that age compared to now… and I can only imagine how much more I will know in another 10 years and how many times I will change my mind about some things. Stay Young as long as you can! ~PurpleAngel~ [/font][/color][color=white][/color] Link to post Share on other sites
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