candykisses Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 Ok so, me and the guy I like have talked a couple of times and it seemed like things were going really good. He knows I like him, and from his actions it seems the feeling is mutual. Whenever we see each other, we smile and wave to each other and catch each on another looking at the other. I was really excited because it seemed to me that it was just a matter of time before he asked me out. Now this where I get confused....the past week he has been completely avoiding me. Last week was the last time he was actively looking for me and the last day where he wasn't avoiding me, he came past me alot within about 15 minutes. The first couple of times I would watch him, I was busy and unable to talk to him. It seemed to me and my other friends that he wanted something but he never came over to me. This I believe is because there was always someone around me. He is very shy and anti social(admitted by him), so he feels very uncomfortable around other people. The times we have talked there has been no one around or maybe 1 or 2 other people. So I was wondering what would make him go into hiding? Avoid me completely? He is not interested like I thought he was? Any opinions or advice would help out alot!!! Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Angels&Airwaves Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 A similar incident happened to me about a month ago; the girl in question had a boyfriend. He might have a girlfriend, you should find out if you don't know. Link to post Share on other sites
Sand&Water Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 RE: You should try to encourage him to join your circle of friends/acquaintances/co-workers/classmates. Invite him over and open up a conversation or two about anything humorous and fun, that way you make him feel welcome. All in all, show him that you are interested by at least putting in some effort. IF after a period of time, given you pour out signals of interest, he doesn't ask you out then you should simply back-off. The stage would have then run it's course, and it would be much more advantageous for you to move on to other men. Whenever he decides, IF EVER, to date you he knows where to find you. You shouldn't have to chase him, it's mainly his task. Sand&Water Link to post Share on other sites
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