I Am Worried!!

[bex2008]

Hi Everyone,

 

Sould I be worried?..........

I have been in my relationship with my partner for 2 years and I love him so much. He has a previous partner and have 3 children with her. As he hasn't got his car at the moment the arrangement is he goes round there once a week, which is fine by me, I would never stand in the way of seeing his kids.

 

It might just be me but before he is due to go round there he makes sure he has a shave and shaves his hair and sometimes he even changes his clothes. I'm getting worried because I dont want to lose him, him and my daughter is all I have as my family dont want to know me.

 

I have told him how I feel. All he says to me is stop being silly and tells me he loves me and thinks the world of me, which does make me feel nice and loved.

 

I would really appreciate some advice.

 

Thanks

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Have you ever caught your bf doing anything suspicious? Like hiding emails and hidden phone calls? I think I need more information to go on.

 

He might just wanted to look nice for his kids, I know that every father who doesn't have custody would want to present themselves off with a good image when they finally see their kids. So don't look into it too much. If he comes home smelling like perfume that when you can start looking for a PI.

[LakesideDream]

Wouldn't you want him to look presentable for his 3 children? I was never in the situation as my children were adults when the divorce happened.. however I cannot imagine wanting to see them "in my grubbies".

 

I often see men out with 2-3 kids in tow, obviously on a "custody day. They always look nice, clean shaved, clean clothing.

 

Sharing custody must be hard enough without your SO being suspicious when you shower, shave, and put on clean clothing before picking up your kids for a evening out, or in.