Sexless marriage, lack of intimacy, yadda, yadda

[Deanster]

Blah blah blah sexless marriage. Blah blah blah lack of intimacy with my wife.

 

I'd like to keep my commitments, but yadda yadda yadda, I'm frustrated and tense, which blah blah blah my marriage.

 

Seriously... even I'm getting bored with my sexless marriage. I can't imagine how y'all feel reading about things.

 

That is all.

[Tony T]

If you desire sex on a regular basis and your spouse is simply not interested...or it's the other way around, the frustrated spouse will become angrier and angrier as times goes on and eventually kill you or divorce you. I promise you, this is a serious problem and that will cause major chaos in a marriage in every area.

 

If you are not attracted to your spouse or vice verse, get your finances in order and be prepared to split. One of the reasons people get married is to have a reliable, disease free person to enjoy intimacy with. Without that...it's just not a happening thing.

[Trialbyfire]

If you've addressed the situation with your wife, in serious heart-to-heart discussions about it, even going to the point of getting counseling, what's keeping you in the marriage? Walk before you cheat.

[eeyore1980]

If you've addressed the situation with your wife, in serious heart-to-heart discussions about it, even going to the point of getting counseling, what's keeping you in the marriage? Walk before you cheat.

 

Yes, exactly. Sex and intimacy are a very important part of marriage, and it is about more than the physical act. IMO, if you love your spouse, you need to try everything you can, including MC, to get to the root of the problem and fix it. If nothing works, you should seriously consider moving on. You deserve happiness just like everyone else.