confusedgirlfriend Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 I am very confused! I'm 16, and in my first SERIOUS relationship. He's in college, we never fight, and he treats me great. There is this guy in one of my classes at school who I literally can't keep my eyes off of. We are always flirting, and he stares at me with "those eyes." I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend, but then there's the hottie at school! I have a feeling "hottie at school" likes me..do I like him too? I feel terrible saying this because my boyfriend loves me! Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted March 15, 2008 Share Posted March 15, 2008 First of all, how long have you been dating your bf? Are you in a long distance relationship? Honestly I think there's certainly a minor (if not major) age gap in your situation, because you're still in hs and your bf is in college. You're still young and it's perfectly understandable that you are attracted to boys that are in your age group. It's not something that you should be ashamed of, as you're not physically cheating on your bf. It's perfectly normal to question your feelings. Besides the guy being hot, do you see him as a potential bf? How does he compare to your bf? If you try to outweigh the situation I'm sure that you'll come to conclusions that one, either you're just particularly infatuated with this one boy because you're attracted to him and he pays you lots of attention or two, you truly see your bf as the only one person for you at this moment because he's caring and considerate, and means the world to you. Just remember, it's nothing to feel bad about. Link to post Share on other sites
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