Replicant Posted March 16, 2008 Share Posted March 16, 2008 (edited) I must say, internet strangers, that I am flattered that you think my emails to Shadowplay were better written than the post you just read. I guess I was off my game. I will confess that there is some politicking between her and I, and showing my side of the story on LS is a way for me to fight for a fair and equitable relationship. This way we both wield the power of the pen... I mean internet forum community. I know most of you people are loving it; eating popcorn and clicking refresh every two minutes while watch 'Lifetime' and wait for your life to drift by; I just posted to see if, in fact, she was wrong for doing this to me. Thanks for the support, even if I am a doormat. -Shadowplays_BF Shadowplay is pure kamakazi drama. She strikes for maximum effect, personal gain and sacrificing herself to hurt others in the process. The more Shadowplay carries on and people respond to her games, the more she's in her own spotlight and reveling in it. She enjoys deception and walking all over people in the cruel manner she does to fuel her selfish co-dependent nature. Shadowplay knows nothing else. She's destined for future stardom in one or more hospital lockdown wards. Her boyfriend is a genetic doormat. His DNA coded to be walked all over and the immune response is actually set to trigger with a list of reasons as to why he loves it, when he's attacked with evidence to indicate he's just a puppet and Shadowplay is pulling his strings in the theater of her mind. Edited March 16, 2008 by Replicant Link to post Share on other sites
a-sweetart Posted March 16, 2008 Share Posted March 16, 2008 Anyway, how it stands is that Shadowplay and I are together, she will relinquish Doug and I will get to have a few casual dates with other girls, just to keep things even. So, some might say, I won! -Shadowplays_BF "Shadowplays BF" ( right) What is it excatly that you have "won"? Oh that's right: A girl that you will not be able to trust to be around any one else because if she finds them attractive she will take a break from you to try them out for a few weeks. Congratulations! Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Shadowplay is pure kamakazi drama. She strikes for maximum effect, personal gain and sacrificing herself to hurt others in the process. The more Shadowplay carries on and people respond to her games, the more she's in her own spotlight and reveling in it. She enjoys deception and walking all over people in the cruel manner she does to fuel her selfish co-dependent nature. Shadowplay knows nothing else. She's destined for future stardom in one or more hospital lockdown wards. Her boyfriend is a genetic doormat. His DNA coded to be walked all over and the immune response is actually set to trigger with a list of reasons as to why he loves it, when he's attacked with evidence to indicate he's just a puppet and Shadowplay is pulling his strings in the theater of her mind. Ouch. I hope you guys at least believe he's a separate person. I have to admit that I feel betrayed by some of you whom I know well and immediately assume I'm completely fabricating some elaborate fake identity. Whatever you think of the personal choices I've made, I've posted on this forum long enough (both giving and receiving serious advice) to at least gain some credibility, I should hope. Besides which why would I fabricate a thread that is engineered to make me look bad? I'm pretty ashamed by the stuff he's written here and wouldn't volunteer it of my own accord. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Shadowplays_BF Posted March 17, 2008 Author Share Posted March 17, 2008 Say what you will about Shadowplay being complicated or about me (the boyfriend) living life as a genetic doormat. Somehow though, I imagine you sitting lonely by an impersonal computer screen. I, on the other hand, just had sex in a canoe... it was AWESOME! Have you ever had sex in a canoe replicant? Maybe you should give being a doormat a try, replicant. One thing I'm not feeling right now is de-feet. Shadowplay's Boyfriend... who just had sex in a canoe. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Say what you will about Shadowplay being complicated or about me (the boyfriend) living life as a genetic doormat. Somehow though, I imagine you sitting lonely by an impersonal computer screen. I, on the other hand, just had sex in a canoe... it was AWESOME! Have you ever had sex in a canoe replicant? Maybe you should give being a doormat a try, replicant. One thing I'm not feeling right now is de-feet. Shadowplay's Boyfriend... who just had sex in a canoe. How exciting. Is sex the ultimate consideration in your life? All 27 seconds of it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Shadowplays_BF Posted March 17, 2008 Author Share Posted March 17, 2008 How exciting. Is sex the ultimate consideration in your life? All 27 seconds of it? For the record it was more than 27 seconds... more like 10 mins... but even if it was 27 seconds it would have been 27 seconds that I would cherish for the rest of my life. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 I don't understand what you want from everyone here? Your opening post was offensive and yet here you are, opening up and sharing your situation with complete strangers... Just curious how you found out about LS? Did SP tell you or did you know her username and google it? Anyway, how it stands is that Shadowplay and I are together, she will relinquish Doug and I will get to have a few casual dates with other girls, just to keep things even. After reading this, I really don't have any advice to give. Sorry.. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Say what you will about Shadowplay being complicated or about me (the boyfriend) living life as a genetic doormat. Somehow though, I imagine you sitting lonely by an impersonal computer screen. I, on the other hand, just had sex in a canoe... it was AWESOME! Have you ever had sex in a canoe replicant? Maybe you should give being a doormat a try, replicant. One thing I'm not feeling right now is de-feet. Shadowplay's Boyfriend... who just had sex in a canoe. Sex in a canoe - you now qualify for Canadian citizenship. Buddy, could you please cut the crap about what you imagine LSers lives to be? Why the need to put us down? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 This is a "created" thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Shadow's boyfriend... I really don't think you two are compatible. You do not challenge her, nor do you excite her. This is precisely why all this drama is happening. She is obviousy bored with you. I sincerely believe she only comes back to you because she is used to you. You are what she knows. Shadow, I hope this post doesn't offend you. But I couldn't help but express my thoughts on this. And to be honest, you [the boyfriend] aren't the victim that you think you are. You are as much a culprit in this as she and Doug are. You are inconsistent and emotionally unstable. You are frankly not good for her. I think she needs to wise up to this and give herself some much needed space from you and Doug. Shadow, I really do hope you get yourself out of this. I hope you take the time to read what he's written in this thread. He sees you as a trophy of some kind. I can see why you aren't into him. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Say what you will about Shadowplay being complicated or about me (the boyfriend) living life as a genetic doormat. Somehow though, I imagine you sitting lonely by an impersonal computer screen. I, on the other hand, just had sex in a canoe... it was AWESOME! Have you ever had sex in a canoe replicant? Don't take you being treated like crap out on us. Repressed anger is not good for you. As for putting us all down, your dear GF (who has sex in the canoe, people CANOE! BTW that really IS a proof that you have great life ), can't go a week without posting every single detail of your personal life on here. And you drove your gf to have sex with your best friend, that is really the saddest thing I have ever heard . Replicant, congrats I LOVED your post, spot on. As for you two, I'm sure you will live happily ever after - as in-patients in the psyhiatric ward. Link to post Share on other sites
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Little Shy Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 No ****, Trial By Fire! you could only think at this point that they are pitching a Reality show here! SP's boyfriend keeps pitching everyone on LS a ton of grief, about having no life, yet his "girlfriend" has been the most obsessive poster ABOUT HIM, any other sordid detail of her life for WEEKS on end! And then, a mere few days, after he posts, he cant seem to stop posting either!!!! Yet No one here has a life!! At least we are not in between boning best friends, and boning in Canoes, then running back to our computer to tell everyone about it! If I had a night with someone I care about, anywhere near a body of water beside a BATHTUB, you better believe, I wouldn't be checking my freaking emails, or chat rooms every 5 minutes. The sex must really be off the hook. Link to post Share on other sites
Nevermind Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 I never had sex in a canoe but then again, it usually takes longer than 10 minutes. So, no envy here. You both deserve each other. All three of you. A trophy hunter, a drama queen and a ****wit. Lovely. Good luck with the screen play! Link to post Share on other sites
shadowofman Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Doug doesn't sound like a bad guy to me. Neither do you BF. And I like you Shadowsister. I forgive you all, and empathize with you for being monkeys. In situations like this, there is just too much baggage for an open relationship to work. Open means you are not in it together. If you want to be promiscuous, then do it together. BF and Doug could act like brothers and share. Shadow needs to stop trying to get reactions out of people. It's manipulative. Jealousy leads to hate, and hate leads to the darkside. Learn to love without possession. Learn to be loved. Link to post Share on other sites
dancinggal Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 This is the most random thread ever. Link to post Share on other sites
Taramere Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 I know most of you people are loving it; eating popcorn and clicking refresh every two minutes while watch 'Lifetime' and wait for your life to drift by; I just posted to see if, in fact, she was wrong for doing this to me. Thanks for the support, even if I am a doormat. -Shadowplays_BF I can't speak for anyone else, but one of my main reasons for checking this is to confirm that however far down the rabbit warren I may have fallen, it could be worse. Here's an avatar idea for you, if you're planning on sticking around. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 I can't speak for anyone else, but one of my main reasons for checking this is to confirm that however far down the rabbit warren I may have fallen, it could be worse. Here's an avatar idea for you, if you're planning on sticking around. Ouch Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 I can't speak for anyone else, but one of my main reasons for checking this is to confirm that however far down the rabbit warren I may have fallen, it could be worse. Me too! When I have a bad day and see Shadow's threads and now this one I immedietly cheer up. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 If this whole this is real.... I think you should dump SP and Doug (Sean). The only reason you still want her is you are caught up in the competition game. Trust me, if she comes back to you after the 3 week period; give it another 3 weeks and you will hardly be able to stand her. How nasty and filthy that your girl wants to swap fluids with your best friend. Yuk! How disrespectful that your best friend would 'throw you under a bus' in a heartbeat to have something that belongs to you. This is your wake-up call sir, your rock bottom so to speak. If you truly want to improve your life and future start here by taking back your self-respect. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Oh and as to your original question: Is there any way to break a love triangle? Yes, remove yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Yeah I was thinking about why you felt the need to put LSer's down, and I agree with the assessment that it's misdirected anger. Your self-esteem has taken a blow, and the way you express yourself here - highly condescending - is most likely you trying to maintain some semblant of superiority. You know what, fundamentally, I think what's going on is that you guys are all young. That Shadowplay will learn a great deal from this - and that hopefully she won't chose a self-destructive path out of a sheer need for drama. I seriously hope she can choose well-being and happiness over darkness. You, like her, believe in the power of the road less travelled. You believe that your life is better if it's different from everybody else's. It's a pretty typical belief amongst college student. The normalization (and individualization) of originality. SP's bf, you have a right to be angry, to feel sad, to feel betrayed, to feel confused. Just make sure you handle those feelings in a constructive manner, instead of lashing out at the world. Link to post Share on other sites
twice_shy Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Shadowplay's Boyfriend, I have followed all of SP's threads about you, and I have to say I'm completely stunned by the total lack of self-respect you are showing for yourself in this situation. I don't want to sound mean, but you are contributing to your own pain by letting Shadowplay and Sean/Doug walk all over you, repeatedly. Exactly. It seems that SP's BF really wants to believe what he said, that relationships are more complicated. Well, sorry to say, sometimes they are just that simple. BF has a girl that wants to spread 'em for another guy, bf doesn't want to lose a tramp like that for some odd reason, so bf decided he wants to say relationships are more complicated than that and just give her up to some other guy to see what happens. I can't believe someone is actually posting that. Shadowplay's BF, if the situation is that you don't want to lose someone like shadowplay, well then, thats your decision. Some people have to learn the hard way. But I agree here, you really need to man up and grow some cahones and turn this 3 week breakup into a permanent break up. Link to post Share on other sites
Replicant Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Ouch. I hope you guys at least believe he's a separate person. I have to admit that I feel betrayed by some of you whom I know well and immediately assume I'm completely fabricating some elaborate fake identity. Whatever you think of the personal choices I've made, I've posted on this forum long enough (both giving and receiving serious advice) to at least gain some credibility, I should hope. Besides which why would I fabricate a thread that is engineered to make me look bad? I'm pretty ashamed by the stuff he's written here and wouldn't volunteer it of my own accord. Why? You exist in the drama, no drama and you are but a shadow with no play. Considering most of your dramatic relationship deserves heavy editing for poor content, it still is release worthy as straight to DVD B quality horror. So at least those whom do stumble upon viewing such will not really make much of it. Then again, it's just another day of Shadow's play-time at the Asylum. Have you ever had sex in a canoe replicant? Maybe you should give being a doormat a try, replicant. One thing I'm not feeling right now is de-feet. Shadowplay's Boyfriend... who just had sex in a canoe. Replicant thinks....your plastic girlfriend is so full of hot air and emotionally inanimate. A inflatable sex doll like that could never pass as a life safety device for use in any canoe in Canada. Instead more like a boat anchor to that gets you stuck in her mud, and pull you down. So the only eyes that typically view such with avid interest are the bottom feeders....who just had sex in a canoe. Besides your canoe story resembles more that of your 'deliverance' from Shadowplay, where there are those in life whom take a lead role and others whom are just 'fücked' from the moment they hit the river. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 I find this entire thread so...boring. Predictable, almost. Link to post Share on other sites
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