shadowplay Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 (edited) Why? You exist in the drama, no drama and you are but a shadow with no play. Considering most of your dramatic relationship deserves heavy editing for poor content, it still is release worthy as straight to DVD B quality horror. So at least those whom do stumble upon viewing such will not really make much of it. Then again, it's just another day of Shadow's play-time at the Asylum. Replicant thinks....your plastic girlfriend is so full of hot air and emotionally inanimate. A inflatable sex doll like that could never pass as a life safety device for use in any canoe in Canada. Instead more like a boat anchor to that gets you stuck in her mud, and pull you down. So the only eyes that typically view such with avid interest are the bottom feeders....who just had sex in a canoe. Besides your canoe story resembles more that of your 'deliverance' from Shadowplay, where there are those in life whom take a lead role and others whom are just 'fücked' from the moment they hit the river. Well you've succeeded in getting a rise out of me, but it's one of laughter, not anger. It's ok, I would be bitter too this time of the year if I lived in Toronto. Take care. -Your inflatable friend Edited March 18, 2008 by shadowplay Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 I find this entire thread so...boring. Predictable, almost. Stop reading then. My bf started this thread to get some real advice, but after the first few responses it devolved into a petty name calling fest and misguided troll hunt. ...At which point he stopped taking the responses seriously. Can you blame him? The few helpful responses (by Kamille, Ocean, etc.) were lost amid the muck. I was with him when he wrote about the canoe. By then we were both laughing about the thread because nobody was taking us seriously and some of the responses were so over the top (I'm looking at you, Replicant). You guys can attack me all you want. I probably deserve it, though I wish you would at least give me enough credit to not fabricate an imaginary boyfriend. I just don't see the point in putting him down. If he's a "doormat" the only person he's hurting is himself. Why the bitter attack on his character? If you want to help him then calling him names probably isn't the best approach. Frankly, I'm tempted to leave LS now. I want to reemphasize how betrayed I feel by the people I've gotten to know pretty well on here who immediately assumed I was fabricating the whole thing. I really resent that. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 ~ Sex in a canoe - you now qualify for Canadian citizenship. ~ At least we are not in between boning best friends, and boning in Canoes, then running back to our computer to tell everyone about it! ~ I can't speak for anyone else, but one of my main reasons for checking this is to confirm that however far down the rabbit warren I may have fallen, it could be worse. ~ Me too! When I have a bad day and see Shadow's threads and now this one I immedietly cheer up. ~ BF has a girl that wants to spread 'em for another guy, bf doesn't want to lose a tramp like that for some odd reason ------------ Anyway, my take on this. The three people involved are well aware of what's going on, there is not deception, and they are all willing participants. They are adults and they know what they are doing. I really don't see anything wrong with it. Good luck you guys and see what you decide. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 (edited) I want to reemphasize how betrayed I feel by the people I've gotten to know pretty well on here who immediately assumed I was fabricating the whole thing. I really resent that. Betrayed? Give me a break, Shadow. Given the drama involved, can you honestly blame us?? And if you're literally laughing as you type, mocking us even further, then why do you care? Why are you wasting our time? Edited March 18, 2008 by Star Gazer Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 Oh, the drama... If even an iota of this is true, you three deserve each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 Oh, the drama... ohhhhhhhhhhh....the humanity Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 ohhhhhhhhhhh....the humanity Do I know you? There's an observational quality about this entire situation. The only emotion that comes to the forefront, is the enjoyment of attention, whether negative or positive. It's reminiscent of an "Ode to me" situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Advocate's Devilette Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 Shadowplay, is that you in your avatar? If so, I can see why you have these guy "problems." PEOPLE, WOULDN'T YOU LOVE 2 HOT GUYS AFTER YOU, NOW COME ON? GIVE IT UP TO SHADOWPLAY, SHE'S GOT IT GOIN' ON!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Nevermind Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 And the drama continues. Will shadowplay leave the safe haven of loveshack.org or will she stay and keep us posted until the inevitable "My name is Sean Doug and I don't even know these people" ? Please stay tuned. ------------ Seriously, the only thing the two of you seem to be interested in : attention. From any kind of audience. But the audience better react right, or else the theatre is moving. Link to post Share on other sites
Advocate's Devilette Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 The only answer is a threesome. Seriously. Bring all the drama to bed, that would be fun, a Shadowplay sandwich. Link to post Share on other sites
Prodigal Princess Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 There's an observational quality about this entire situation. The only emotion that comes to the forefront, is the enjoyment of attention, whether negative or positive. It's reminiscent of an "Ode to me" situation. Totally agree! Despite this, I actually do like shadowplay; if nothing else she is very entertaining. The boyfriend must go though, he sounds like a total pu$$y. Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 (edited) Betrayed? Give me a break, Shadow. Given the drama involved, can you honestly blame us?? And if you're literally laughing as you type, mocking us even further, then why do you care? Why are you wasting our time? I did not start this thread, and none of my comments were mocking. I was laughing with him at one point while he typed because of the ridiculousness of the situation. That doesn't mean I wasn't a wee bit hurt. It's true he doesn't have a high opinion of LSers. I do, or at least did, because I've interacted with a lot of intelligent, insightful people on here. Even if you dismiss my threads as self-indulgent, I've put time into giving others advice (including you). It stings that you guys would basically encourage me to leave and act like I've contributed nothing based on a thread I didn't even create. At the end of my last thread I left a warning that my bf was considering coming on LS to tell his side of the story. You, Star, told me to come on here and say it wasn't me which is exactly what I did. I actually think that will be very helpful, Shadow. Not only for you, but for all of us. I hope you'll verify it's him when he does show up. Can you see how I'd feel a little bit betrayed/confused? I asked him not to start this thread, but he insisted. I guess I don't understand why I'm being attacked or called an attention whore for a thread I didn't even create. I came on here to defend myself when people called me a liar. So what? Edited March 18, 2008 by shadowplay Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 Shadowplay' date=' is that you in your avatar? [/quote'] That is Anna Karenina in her Avatar.. Interesting enough though is that there is a screen play about her. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0118623/ Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 That is Anna Karenina in her Avatar.. Interesting enough though is that there is a screen play about her. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0118623/ It's actually Dutch actress and Godard's wife, Anna Karina. But I believe she was named after Anna Karenina. She does look a bit like Sophie Marceau, though, the actress who plays Anna Karenina in the movie you linked to. Strange coincidence. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 It's actually Dutch actress and Godard's wife, Anna Karina. But I believe she was named after Anna Karenina. Sh does look a bit like Isabelle Adjani, though, the actress who plays Anna Karenina in the movie you linked to. Strange coincidence. Boy I missed that one... *shrugs shoulders*.... I guess I need to polish up my name-face skills.. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 I have to agree with Shadow... This thread does step over the line a few times. I agree that SP's BF didn't exactly present himself in the most likeable light - but at the same time, considering that people used this thread to have a field day, that his gf just put him through most people's worst nightmare, I can see where he gets the need to establish some kind of semblant of dignity. Now, as to Shadow leaving LS!!! I hope you guys are kidding! She didn't make all the right choices, but if anything I always found her to be incredibly candid about her feelings, her fears and her desires. Seriously, I love you guys, but where's your sense of empathy? Basic LS rule: if you don't like a member, put them on ignore. Whether or not they chose to stay is not up to you. If you think she's an attention whore, stop giving her attention then. No one is forcing you to read the threads related to her. This all feels like school yard politics to me. Even if you dismiss my threads as self-indulgent, I've put time into giving others advice (including you). It stings that you guys would basically encourage me to leave and act like I've contributed nothing based on a thread I didn't even create. Honestly, I couldn't agree more. Shadow has always been an insightful, intuitive and caring advice giver on my threads. I really feel like LS would be losing a part of it cachet if Shadow was made to leave. Plus, what frustrates me, is that I always found that what made Shadow endearing is that, while she has many issues that she's dealing with, she does engage with the advice we give her. I feel like a great many of you are angry at her for the choices she has made recently and are taking it out on her BF. Maybe you have perfect cookie-cutter lives and always make the responsible decisions, and then good for you. I don't even think what Shadow did is tantamount to much more drama then anything that is going on in the OW/OM or infidelity forums. The difference is, unlike in those forums, she was mostly honest with everyone involved - and even us- about her motivation. Can you see how I'd feel a little bit betrayed/confused? I can see how you'd feel betrayed and confused. I don't want you to leave LS. Please stay. Link to post Share on other sites
spookie Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 Are you sure that wasn't you, Shadow? The writing style is eerily... identical. I thought your bf had a thing for flowery prose. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 Are you sure that wasn't you, Shadow? The writing style is eerily... identical. I thought your bf had a thing for flowery prose. Why does it matter guys? And how is she supposed to prove it isn't her? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 Are you sure that wasn't you, Shadow? The writing style is eerily... identical. I thought your bf had a thing for flowery prose. This exact issue, crossed my mind too! Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 (edited) Are you sure that wasn't you, Shadow? The writing style is eerily... identical. I thought your bf had a thing for flowery prose. It really isn't. I can't explain the inconsistency. He was livid when he started this thread, so he may have ditched the fancy prose in the interest of getting his point across. Edited March 18, 2008 by shadowplay Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 :lmao: I hope they do indeed leave. I doubt shadowplay will gain anything else from LS and she certainly contributes nothing to it And if not, at least her threads make my life look good What a b t ch. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 It really isn't. I can't explain the inconsistency. He was livid when he started this thread, so he may have ditched the fancy prose in the interest of getting his point across. It's true that TBF and Spookie both have steady writing styles. I don't think that I do. Some days I put more thought into what I am writing then others, and I find that whatever I am reading sticks to my head and influences my writing style. Maybe I am steadier in French (my first language). But even then, I was a pro in undergrad at pastiche. Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 (edited) Some of the stuff in this thread is hurtful, mean and downright cruel. As Kamille said, if you don't like someone or what they are posting, then put them on ignore. I can understand why some posters have expressed doubt regarding the sincerity of the original post (for whatever reason)... It's better to come right out and state your suspicions instead of pretending to be helpful whilst harbouring this suspicion - if fact, this is gusty and most wouldn't come right out and speak their mind (esp. after having established their identity here)... But to those that have resorted to name calling and the like...I have to say, I'm shocked. This is by far the most hurtful thread on this site. I've never read such hateful posts on LS before. I've always liked this place b/c it's a space for those of different ilk to come together and share and discuss. Why the need to bash so forcefully and spitefully? I've come to know a few of you off the site. And those of you that I know, I cherish as my online friends and value the time you put in here. Maybe it's just me...but it REALLY bothers me when someone I consider a friend (albeit an online one) gets dragged through the mud like this. If anyone were to write this crap about any one of you (even those of you I've had single conversations with), I'd be majorly peeved. Shadow, I think you are a valuable contributor to this community. Some of your posts have been incredibly insightful and helpful. And while you are may have a great deal of drama in your life and have made some very bad choices, that does not make you any less worthy of being a member of LS than the next person. I really hope you stick around. Edited March 18, 2008 by Ocean-Blue Link to post Share on other sites
Advocate's Devilette Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 I wasn't kidding about the threesome! Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 Even if you dismiss my threads as self-indulgent, I've put time into giving others advice (including you). It stings that you guys would basically encourage me to leave and act like I've contributed nothing based on a thread I didn't even create. I've done nothing more than question the identity of the person posting as "Shadowplay's BF." He writes exactly like YOU, and quite unlike how he's written before in the emails you've posted. In addition, most third-parties that come on here aren't able to be so calm, lucid, and proper when referring to the LS member's member name. He calls Doug Doug, so why isn't he calling you by your name? Can YOU not see how some of us would question this? Particularly when you've admitted sitting together while "he" types and the two of you laugh at us? How you're able to read into what should be viewed as perfectly reasonable suspicion as a statement that I want you to leave is beyond me. But I will admit that your efforts to stretch a simple suspicion into such hurtful insinuations does lead me to believe you're hoping for even more attention and sympathy from LS, which amazes me since you'd admitted you laugh us with your BF. Link to post Share on other sites
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