longlegzs80 Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 It seems like I keep mopping about the same thing. But I am truely sick of being lonely. As I mentioned before I have not dated since I was 17 and now I am 22. The thing is I want someone who will love me, hold me, just be there for me. I can't stand being alone all the time with no one caring or no one wanting me. I guess I am just writting this to vent. Last night I cried because I think about my life and what little I have done, and having no one in my life and realizing that it is not going to get any better until I do something about it. Anyways, I have low self esteem and a huge complex thinking that I am going to go all my life without having a man to care about me. Just sick of being like this. What's wrong with me? The only time I come off as being desperate is when I am writing a new thread and spilling out my problems. I just wish someone could help me. Link to post Share on other sites
Bill Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Lonliness is a feeling that hurts a lot. I can only relate, not provide help. I am in a situation similar. It is best to try to change things, even though there is an underlying throught of failure. Link to post Share on other sites
Patty Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 Your mind controls your whole body.Dont let it control you and just think positive.Dont let your mind tell you,you will never meet anyone.Be nice to yourself and tell yourself you will meet someone.I know its easier said then done. But I had the same problem you did.I kept telling myself,I'll never have any friends or I would tell myself no one likes me.But one day I told myself "Im going to talk to many different people today and Im going to try saying hi to people and I even made myself join in other peoples conversations.It was hard to do but I started feeling better towards myself afterwards. You are absolutely right,it wont get better unless you do something about it.If you want things to get better,they will.So start thinking nice thoughts and changing your way of thinking and things will eventually get better.So everytime you get a negative thought,dont let it interfere with your thinking. A good therapist would be able to help you with your self esteem too. Good luck.I hope I was able to help. Patty Link to post Share on other sites
zman Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 I used to feel the same way, only I'm a man. It's taken me a decade to figure things out and feel good about myself. Along the way I've been to counselling, on Prozac, read books, etc. One book I recently read which I wish I had read earlier is the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey. Buy it and read the whole thing. It will put you on the right track in life. Link to post Share on other sites
LOTSOFLOVE Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 THERES HOPE YOU JUST HAVE TO SET A GOAL TO FIND SOMEONE THERE ARE MANY ONLINE DATING SERVICES JUST TRY IT YOU MAY FIND THE ONE YOU LOVE BEFORE YOU KNOW IT LET ME KNOW HOW IT WORKS OUT WISH YOU THE BEST Link to post Share on other sites
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