second chances

[carygirl]

I have been with this man for 8 years on and off. We keep coming back to one another even after cheating and sneeking around. We both had another relationship but neither lasted all I did was think of him. I always keep him in my mind and seem to do anything for this guy. I have been hurt by him and after 8 years of this are we going to get anywhere this time? Just the other day we had sex for the first time in about 6 months and 2 days later he asks if I would want to buy a house with him. I dream to be with this guy, I love him dearly. We are now not talking because he wanted to leave town i a strange way. He wants to get away for a few days and says we have not been getting along latly. Well I see it differently and believe he is up to something like he has been known to do. He says we are just friends, best friends and I shouldn't care about what he wants to do or who he plajns on seeing. I was so mad that I told him to never call or come around me again. At first he said he didn't want me to make him feel like crap and he wanted to convience me we are only friends, well I do way to much for him and show I care in many ways. I am very hurt because he has not called me back after I hung up on him, I did not like hearing we were just friends. What do I do? I really love him and want things to work out, will they?

[stewh]

Carygirl, this guy is just taking the piss. Picking you up as and when he feels like it. I think you might have done the same in the past with him but may be you are possibly changing and looking for more commitment from him now? Problem is this, penis brain is still in 'do what I like mode, I don't give a f**k'

 

There are plenty of guys out there looking for commitment with just one person. Stop wasting your valuable time and hurting yourself by hanging on to this guy.

 

Unless you sub conciously (is that spelt right?) enjoy this type of relationship, go get yourself someone better!!!

 

I've got to

[tanita]

nooooooooooooooooooooooooo!