aalana Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 I have kind of a strange question for everyone. I have a gay male friend of mine who believes he may be getting hit on by a married male co-worker of his. He says on occassion he may have flirted back with the married man, but doesn't believe the married man knows he is gay. My friend says that he may be interested if the guy was not married, but because he is, he is kind of turned off. For example, yesterday, a friend of his who he works with asked the married guy if he was excited to see my friend, and he said, I'm always excited to see him. There have been other incidences as well over time. He wants to tell this guy he is not interested, but he doesn't want to do it if this married guy doesn't have those feelings and he may be reading too much into it. So my question is, how could you go about asking a married, supposedly straight guy, if he has feelings for another male? And, if he does, how to tell him you're not interested because he's married? Thanks in advance!! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 In a situation of complete ambiguity or complexity, forget any direct discussion or confrontation. The easiest way is to remain professional but disinterested. This will cover both friendship or any other type of enroaching relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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