Raizin_Drop Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 Girls, how do u feel about your bf walking around the house nude everyday in front of open windows where he knows he can be seen, ie., a female who lives right across the road. Recently i have told him to wear boxer shorts or something because he needs to leave something to the imagination (for me) and that he within eye shot of a female neighbor, which he denies is not the reason why he does it. I beg to differ though , because he has this ego thing going on about his penis and loves to be looked at. He has a good body, but so do i , but i would not even fathom walking around the house like that in front of open windows where i know i could be seen. Link to post Share on other sites
bejshermanoaks Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 Im a man--here are my thoughts..Tell him it makes you uncomfortable and wish he wouldnt do it. Dont tell him this in a fight --tell him when things are good and you guys are getting along, and say it nice and sweet. If he keeps on doing it, let him be--you shouldnt change him and it doesnt sound like a big enough issue to fight about or have dissention over.. He'll eventually stop doing it as he matures or when an embarassing situation happens , which it eventually will Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 That's probably why he's doing it.. he's an exhibitionist.. and he loves the thought of being watched.. some kind of fantasy.. If you're not comfortable with this.. tell him.. and if he doesn't stop..then you have to take a decision.. is this important enough to break the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Raizin_Drop Posted March 22, 2008 Author Share Posted March 22, 2008 "That's probably why he's doing it.. he's an exhibitionist.. and he loves the thought of being watched.. some kind of fantasy.." Ive told him countless times that he's an exhibitionist which he always denies. He also tries to kiss and fondle me in the same way in front of the open window, clearly where we can be seen, and that is not my style at all. I am more discreet in that way than he is. I have to tell him no, that i am not exhibiting this kind of behavior within eye shot of people. I know exactly what he is trying to do and he responds to me as if its all in my head and im imaging things. Its also not a nice feeling knowing that the female neighbor across the road knows what my boyfriend looks like naked....he's put on boxer shorts now, which is a start i guess.....even though the other day i saw that he forgot himself and strolled into the living room starkers, yet again......by the way he's 44, if that makes a diff....x Link to post Share on other sites
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