Ani Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Just surprised mine with a visit to her last day of school with chocolates, roses and a bear. She started jumping, screaming, and wouldn't stop kissing me. It was the best moments in my life. Almost cried when she did but I didn't! Gah can't wait to see her again in an hour. Best day in my life and in a week our LDR is over. We will finally be living under the same roof. Gah 36 minutes left till she's out of school. Seems to be passing so slowly. :love: 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ladyabstrused Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 Just surprised mine with a visit to her last day of school with chocolates, roses and a bear. She started jumping, screaming, and wouldn't stop kissing me. It was the best moments in my life. Almost cried when she did but I didn't! Gah can't wait to see her again in an hour. Best day in my life and in a week our LDR is over. We will finally be living under the same roof. Gah 36 minutes left till she's out of school. Seems to be passing so slowly. :love: That's seems like pure bliss. How sweet Link to post Share on other sites
blugirl Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 3 months..... please, pass quicker... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 4 weeks 2 Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 Aww sorry to hear about that, damian5656. :\ Back to topic, well, I wrote earlier on that it'd likely be this December that I'd see my SO. Well ... that no longer will happen, I guess. What happened? Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 Just surprised mine with a visit to her last day of school with chocolates, roses and a bear. She started jumping, screaming, and wouldn't stop kissing me. It was the best moments in my life. Almost cried when she did but I didn't! Gah can't wait to see her again in an hour. Best day in my life and in a week our LDR is over. We will finally be living under the same roof. Gah 36 minutes left till she's out of school. Seems to be passing so slowly. :love: That is amazing and so cute! It is people like you that will always give me the strength I need to carry on and not feel too lonely! Link to post Share on other sites
folieadeux Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 This time tomorrow afternoon I will be at the Atlanta airport clinging happily to my lovable Brit... the very concept has me walking without touching the ground. Also has made me so excited that my chronic insomnia is up and out, but it's all going to be worth it when our eyes lock for the first time since January. I can't wait. =) Reminds me of my life! Link to post Share on other sites
folieadeux Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 No more countdowns!!!!!!!!!!!!! :bunny: Stay strong everyone!!! It CAN be done! 5 Link to post Share on other sites
ladyabstrused Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 What happened? We broke up. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 Fantastic!! So happy for you both No more countdowns!!!!!!!!!!!!! :bunny: Stay strong everyone!!! It CAN be done! Link to post Share on other sites
folieadeux Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 Fantastic!! So happy for you both Thank you!! Link to post Share on other sites
Cathster Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 Said goodbye to my guy today... countdown begins, 100 days! It is only one countdown though so I guess pretty good in comparison. ETA: So glad for you that your countdowns are over folieadeux! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
folieadeux Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 Said goodbye to my guy today... countdown begins, 100 days! It is only one countdown though so I guess pretty good in comparison. ETA: So glad for you that your countdowns are over folieadeux! Thanks so much! Is this your last countdown? Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted June 6, 2012 Share Posted June 6, 2012 September. Hoping the summer months pass quickly. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Cathster Posted June 7, 2012 Share Posted June 7, 2012 Thanks so much! Is this your last countdown? He's only doing a summer abroad for work so a very temporary LDR thank goodness! The work he's doing plus no internet connection means that I've absolutely no idea when I will next hear from him though, and we've only been together a short while. Link to post Share on other sites
Ani Posted June 7, 2012 Share Posted June 7, 2012 Just surprised mine with a visit to her last day of school with chocolates, roses and a bear. She started jumping, screaming, and wouldn't stop kissing me. It was the best moments in my life. Almost cried when she did but I didn't! Gah can't wait to see her again in an hour. Best day in my life and in a week our LDR is over. We will finally be living under the same roof. Gah 36 minutes left till she's out of school. Seems to be passing so slowly. :love: Feel so stupid reading my excitement now. She got cold feet at the end. :( Link to post Share on other sites
Ani Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 Aww.. what happened exactly? Well I went there to surprise my girlfriend on her last day of school she expected me to arrive on Sunday but I went there on Friday. Everything was going fine until it was time to tell her parents we wanted to move in. Her parents havent known about our relationship even though we've been together for two years.She is afraid of her parents because dating is against their indian culture. Her parents have never given her a chance to talk to them, and have always just cared about her education without ever asking how she was emotionally. She gets verbally abused daily. She's well afraid of them. She has thought about committing suicide 3 times and has nearly been raped. I am the only person who knows this. Anyways the day came for us to tell her parents. I had to drive 3 hours to wear she was and meet her at the park. When I met her at the park she said I don't want to move in anymore. She didn't want to hurt her parents ans sister. I began to cry and pleading for her to reconsider. She just said she couldnt and wouldnt look at me.She had to go back home. So I dropped her off about a block from her house and drove out of her neighborhood. Pulled over and just began to sob.I began my trip of driving 3 hours back to where I was staying when half way there she told me she wanted to move in and that she made the wrong choice. Well I drove back with the biggest smile I've ever had and was prepared for the following day. She was talking about how we should do it blah blah. Next day came and we had planned to meet at the park where she would be with her parents. I drove over there that morning and when I got to the park she told me they had left. Which was a lie, I could see them there getting ready to leave. Anyways I went with it and she began to say she wasn't ready, that she was young. That maybe she liked being alone. She said that she was sorry she had changed her mind again and that I should go back to where I was staying. Well I began my trip back and you can guess I cried all the way back and began to prepare my trip all the way back to where I'm originally from which is a 36 hour drive. Right now she's saying I'm not the same person, that I seem angry. Why wouldn't I be angry? I spent about 4 grand to get everything ready, I did everything I possibly could for us to end up together. All this time she has been whining about why she stayed if all she receives is verbal abuse from her parents. Right now I'm in a "IDC stage" I'm mad at everyone and especially her. Don't expect things to be the same. Hopefully they go back to how they were but right now I love her and hate her.Now she wants to move in on August. I'm not sure if I should get my hopes high again. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I'm sorry I wouldn't get your hopes up, I'd have a break/space for a couple of weeks. Well I went there to surprise my girlfriend on her last day of school she expected me to arrive on Sunday but I went there on Friday. Everything was going fine until it was time to tell her parents we wanted to move in. Her parents havent known about our relationship even though we've been together for two years.She is afraid of her parents because dating is against their indian culture. Her parents have never given her a chance to talk to them, and have always just cared about her education without ever asking how she was emotionally. She gets verbally abused daily. She's well afraid of them. She has thought about committing suicide 3 times and has nearly been raped. I am the only person who knows this. Anyways the day came for us to tell her parents. I had to drive 3 hours to wear she was and meet her at the park. When I met her at the park she said I don't want to move in anymore. She didn't want to hurt her parents ans sister. I began to cry and pleading for her to reconsider. She just said she couldnt and wouldnt look at me.She had to go back home. So I dropped her off about a block from her house and drove out of her neighborhood. Pulled over and just began to sob.I began my trip of driving 3 hours back to where I was staying when half way there she told me she wanted to move in and that she made the wrong choice. Well I drove back with the biggest smile I've ever had and was prepared for the following day. She was talking about how we should do it blah blah. Next day came and we had planned to meet at the park where she would be with her parents. I drove over there that morning and when I got to the park she told me they had left. Which was a lie, I could see them there getting ready to leave. Anyways I went with it and she began to say she wasn't ready, that she was young. That maybe she liked being alone. She said that she was sorry she had changed her mind again and that I should go back to where I was staying. Well I began my trip back and you can guess I cried all the way back and began to prepare my trip all the way back to where I'm originally from which is a 36 hour drive. Right now she's saying I'm not the same person, that I seem angry. Why wouldn't I be angry? I spent about 4 grand to get everything ready, I did everything I possibly could for us to end up together. All this time she has been whining about why she stayed if all she receives is verbal abuse from her parents. Right now I'm in a "IDC stage" I'm mad at everyone and especially her. Don't expect things to be the same. Hopefully they go back to how they were but right now I love her and hate her.Now she wants to move in on August. I'm not sure if I should get my hopes high again. Link to post Share on other sites
ladyabstrused Posted June 9, 2012 Share Posted June 9, 2012 Well I went there to surprise my girlfriend on her last day of school she expected me to arrive on Sunday but I went there on Friday. Everything was going fine until it was time to tell her parents we wanted to move in. Her parents havent known about our relationship even though we've been together for two years.She is afraid of her parents because dating is against their indian culture. Her parents have never given her a chance to talk to them, and have always just cared about her education without ever asking how she was emotionally. She gets verbally abused daily. She's well afraid of them. She has thought about committing suicide 3 times and has nearly been raped. I am the only person who knows this. Anyways the day came for us to tell her parents. I had to drive 3 hours to wear she was and meet her at the park. When I met her at the park she said I don't want to move in anymore. She didn't want to hurt her parents ans sister. I began to cry and pleading for her to reconsider. She just said she couldnt and wouldnt look at me.She had to go back home. So I dropped her off about a block from her house and drove out of her neighborhood. Pulled over and just began to sob.I began my trip of driving 3 hours back to where I was staying when half way there she told me she wanted to move in and that she made the wrong choice. Well I drove back with the biggest smile I've ever had and was prepared for the following day. She was talking about how we should do it blah blah. Next day came and we had planned to meet at the park where she would be with her parents. I drove over there that morning and when I got to the park she told me they had left. Which was a lie, I could see them there getting ready to leave. Anyways I went with it and she began to say she wasn't ready, that she was young. That maybe she liked being alone. She said that she was sorry she had changed her mind again and that I should go back to where I was staying. Well I began my trip back and you can guess I cried all the way back and began to prepare my trip all the way back to where I'm originally from which is a 36 hour drive. Right now she's saying I'm not the same person, that I seem angry. Why wouldn't I be angry? I spent about 4 grand to get everything ready, I did everything I possibly could for us to end up together. All this time she has been whining about why she stayed if all she receives is verbal abuse from her parents. Right now I'm in a "IDC stage" I'm mad at everyone and especially her. Don't expect things to be the same. Hopefully they go back to how they were but right now I love her and hate her.Now she wants to move in on August. I'm not sure if I should get my hopes high again. I'm sorry you went through all that only to get a run-around response. It's obvious that she's unsure as to whether she wants to move in with you or not. It seems that most likely she won't as she seems to be too afraid of her family. It's only logical that you would be angry or upset because of what you have put out and it's crazy how she can't even see why you would be in this situation. It's also best that you try to discuss things out with her after you have cooled down some. Sometimes we may regret the things we say out of anger or emotion. As for her wanting to move in with you again, but only in August? Well don't get your hopes up too high. Best that you have a deep sincere talk with her before making those life-changing plans. Sorry Ani :\ hope you would feel better soon at least. Take care. Link to post Share on other sites
folieadeux Posted June 9, 2012 Share Posted June 9, 2012 He's only doing a summer abroad for work so a very temporary LDR thank goodness! The work he's doing plus no internet connection means that I've absolutely no idea when I will next hear from him though, and we've only been together a short while. Oh man, the internet really does keep LDRs going for sure. Is there any way he can go somewhere that has internet even for a short while just to shoot you off a quick email? Is calling each other an option? Link to post Share on other sites
Cathster Posted June 9, 2012 Share Posted June 9, 2012 Oh man, the internet really does keep LDRs going for sure. Is there any way he can go somewhere that has internet even for a short while just to shoot you off a quick email? Is calling each other an option? He has been great so far, finding Internet cafes to just send me a quick message almost every day. He's not started work yet though - when he does he's on shift all day six days a week so going to internet cafes then will no longer be an option! We are going to try calling but because of the nature of his work he has no idea when he's going to have a spare minute so we can't plan them. Plus with the time difference... Ugh, I'm so glad it's just for the summer. My last LDR was bad enough and we were able to speak to each other pretty much whenever we wanted! Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 (edited) Maybe August instead of September. Missing him sucks. Edited June 10, 2012 by cerridwen Link to post Share on other sites
Anela Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 Maybe August instead of September. Missing him sucks. I was going to say that I didn't know you were seeing anyone, but we don't really know each other that well. Sorry to hear that you're missing someone so badly. Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 (edited) I was going to say that I didn't know you were seeing anyone, but we don't really know each other that well. Sorry to hear that you're missing someone so badly. Thank you, Bunny. You're always so thoughtful. It's all about accepting the impermanence of the good and the bad. Things will work out as they should, I'll trust in that. If only he didn't look so great in those jeans! Thanks again. Edited June 10, 2012 by cerridwen 3 Link to post Share on other sites
medasist Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 Boyfriend just left for a mini cruise for the navy, 70 more days! Link to post Share on other sites
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