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Miad's Princess

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girldies

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163 days from today until I meet my bf for the first time. We will spend 3 weeks together. The wait is killing me!

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skakitty

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From 7 months... to 2 days :love:

 

Nearly the same for me... from 11 months to 2 days!! I'm collecting him on Tuesday morning :D

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Ani

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I'm sorry you went through all that only to get a run-around response. It's obvious that she's unsure as to whether she wants to move in with you or not. It seems that most likely she won't as she seems to be too afraid of her family.

 

It's only logical that you would be angry or upset because of what you have put out and it's crazy how she can't even see why you would be in this situation. It's also best that you try to discuss things out with her after you have cooled down some. Sometimes we may regret the things we say out of anger or emotion.

 

As for her wanting to move in with you again, but only in August? Well don't get your hopes up too high. Best that you have a deep sincere talk with her before making those life-changing plans.

 

Sorry Ani :\ hope you would feel better soon at least. Take care.

 

Thank you for the kind words.

 

She broke up with me Saturday while she is in vacation in India. She broke up with me because of if her family found out about us it would ruin her family name. She's muslim. She did it because her dads brother tried to kill her dad in honor for the family. No one knows we are dating, and why the brother did something like this I don't know.

 

Right now I'm just crushed. I don't eat or sleep. I haven't ate in two days. I feel like I gave her everything I could and she just took it for granted. All she does right now is try to make me feel worse. All I do is work, and work out. Those are the only two things that keep my mind off of her.

 

I tried to do everything in the way that wouldn't hurt her family names. We never had sex, even though there were moments were we could have when I went to visit her, I didn't because of respect for her family. I wanted them to know about us, and that I was willing to convert and Marry to their daughter before anything sexual ever happened between us.

 

She messages me everyday and talks about her day and stuff. And I'm over here trying to make her feel good about how her day is, and of her decision. She tells me she misses me, and that she loves me but she doesn't know what to do. I already told her what we could do but when I tell her that she says something like we are just friends, and that's it. We are over. Today I was good, and happy until she sent me a message saying "send me a pic of you" and I said sure with a big smile on my face. After that she said Lol I was just kidding. That completely crushed me.

 

It sucks, I truly did love her. The day before she broke up with me Friday, I had bought the plane tickets to go see her. Only for the following day she to break up with me.

 

I don't eat or sleep. All I do is work, and go to the gym. I just feel awful.

 

Oh well there goes 7 grand down the drain, and 2 years of my life.

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Strawcherry

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2 years before you see her? :eek: How come so long?

 

I'm 16. My parents dont think I'm mature, and they're right. I dont think I'm ready for a relationship just yet, I just dont feel comfortable. Never was into girls tbh, so uhh, this is kinda new for me. I really like her and want to be with her, but atm I just cant. Although, she's willing to wait however long it takes - even though I keep telling her to find someone else.

 

And I also have to study. Planning to apply to colleges in USA, hoping to get into IVY league :)

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ladyabstrused

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Thank you for the kind words.

 

She broke up with me Saturday while she is in vacation in India. She broke up with me because of if her family found out about us it would ruin her family name. She's muslim. She did it because her dads brother tried to kill her dad in honor for the family. No one knows we are dating, and why the brother did something like this I don't know.

 

Right now I'm just crushed. I don't eat or sleep. I haven't ate in two days. I feel like I gave her everything I could and she just took it for granted. All she does right now is try to make me feel worse. All I do is work, and work out. Those are the only two things that keep my mind off of her.

 

I tried to do everything in the way that wouldn't hurt her family names. We never had sex, even though there were moments were we could have when I went to visit her, I didn't because of respect for her family. I wanted them to know about us, and that I was willing to convert and Marry to their daughter before anything sexual ever happened between us.

 

She messages me everyday and talks about her day and stuff. And I'm over here trying to make her feel good about how her day is, and of her decision. She tells me she misses me, and that she loves me but she doesn't know what to do. I already told her what we could do but when I tell her that she says something like we are just friends, and that's it. We are over. Today I was good, and happy until she sent me a message saying "send me a pic of you" and I said sure with a big smile on my face. After that she said Lol I was just kidding. That completely crushed me.

 

It sucks, I truly did love her. The day before she broke up with me Friday, I had bought the plane tickets to go see her. Only for the following day she to break up with me.

 

I don't eat or sleep. All I do is work, and go to the gym. I just feel awful.

 

Oh well there goes 7 grand down the drain, and 2 years of my life.

 

Oh my..I'm sorry to hear about that, Ani. You truly loved her.. to have cared so much.

 

What she did about asking you to send a picture and then later to joke about it, well it's mean but perhaps she didn't mean to do that on purpose? I don't know. It's hard to tell...but you'd know her better.

 

Honestly, I think you should stop contacting her as it seems to only leave you more hurt each time.

 

Cheer up, Ani. You deserve better and there's so much more in life that you've yet to see. Working out more out of frustration seems ok..but you need to eat to make sure you don't hurt yourself. Come on, it's not worth it this way. :\

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JWRP

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Ani best of luck. You shouldn't have to end up with someone so cold and willing to toy with you.

 

Anyways...

 

I see my SO in exactly 24 hours :D:D

 

23 and 59 minutes : )

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buddy211

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211 days for me. Down from 252 days. This month has been especially rough for me, and I have almost called the relationship off because of it. But thanks to this forum, I feel so much better, and will continue to seek the positive.

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Veradis

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After 2 years and 7 months of long-distance my husband will finally be moving to Canada in 10 days!!!!

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Just got back from 5 amazing days with my boyfriend. So a new countdown begins! 51 more days!

 

Hope everything went great! :)

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cerridwen

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35 days. :)

 

Excited to see him; excited to shop for more new clothes; excited to see places I haven't before; excited to paraglide; excited about feeling happy once again.

 

HOH, :love:

I'm working on that PM!

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Anela

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35 days. :)

 

Excited to see him; excited to shop for more new clothes; excited to see places I haven't before; excited to paraglide; excited about feeling happy once again.

 

:love: Those 35 days will be gone in (almost) no time, although I know how it is to miss someone. I can't believe we've almost run out of July!

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eleanorhurting

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If things continue to go well with my SO, in 11 months I will be posting my countdowns here with you guys.

 

Best of luck to everyone :)

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amayana

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I spent 2 amazing weeks with my BF and they flew by so very quickly...! 111 days until we get to spend some time together again, hmmmm

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