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HeavenOrHell

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Got back from seeing him yesterday, he has a few days off at xmas, not sure if I'll see him then though as am seeing him in Jan, but really hope he can come over for xmas, especially as I'll be on my own.

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cerridwen

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Got back from seeing him yesterday, he has a few days off at xmas, not sure if I'll see him then though as am seeing him in Jan, but really hope he can come over for xmas, especially as I'll be on my own.

 

I'll be hoping for that too, HoH.

Hugs.

 

 

 

15 days.

I can't wait.

This trip is the glue to hopefully put Humpty Dumpty back together again.

Thank you for encouraging me to go, you. :)

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HeavenOrHell

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Thank you.

 

Wishing you a wonderful time :love:

 

 

I'll be hoping for that too, HoH.

Hugs.

 

 

 

15 days.

I can't wait.

This trip is the glue to hopefully put Humpty Dumpty back together again.

Thank you for encouraging me to go, you. :)

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ladyabstrused

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Here I am finally in England with my love. :love:

 

A week has passed & wishing that time could stand still really. It's been wonderful and everything's been going so well. :)

 

Best of luck to all who's counting down still!

 

Thinking of you ladies cerridwen & HoH. :)

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HeavenOrHell

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Wonderful to hear!

Enjoy every moment! :)

 

 

 

Here I am finally in England with my love. :love:

 

A week has passed & wishing that time could stand still really. It's been wonderful and everything's been going so well. :)

 

Best of luck to all who's counting down still!

 

Thinking of you ladies cerridwen & HoH. :)

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amayana

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Here I am finally in England with my love. :love:

 

A week has passed & wishing that time could stand still really. It's been wonderful and everything's been going so well. :)

 

Best of luck to all who's counting down still!

 

Thinking of you ladies cerridwen & HoH. :)

 

Have a great time here in England! :)

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Ani

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So yesterday I booked a flight and hotel to surprise my gf for a week next month on the 13-20th. The bad news is she broke up with me today. Why did she? Because she thinks I'm going to cheat on her.

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amayana

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So yesterday I booked a flight and hotel to surprise my gf for a week next month on the 13-20th. The bad news is she broke up with me today. Why did she? Because she thinks I'm going to cheat on her.

 

Ani, no offense but I think maybe it's time for you to move on and find the courage to let go of her. She obviously causes you more harm and distress than happiness. Having personal issues is no excuse for her to be treating you like this. In my eyes you are putting way more effort in this relationship than she ever will. I might be wrong but that's how I judge your posts to this forum. And her breaking up with you is probably a good time to accept this and try to get over all of it. Enjoy life, have fun, get out there and meet new people. Travel and keep an open mind and heart.

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HeavenOrHell

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Sad this eve as we wondered about having xmas together, even though we only just saw each other, but flights are too expensive :( Trying not to cry, shouldn't have started looking forward to it as it wasn't even a definite thing, just miss him, and didn't say goodbye properly on Monday as there was no time, xmas would've been so lovely.

But others have it far worse than me, so I am thankful for what I have.

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Ani, no offense but I think maybe it's time for you to move on and find the courage to let go of her. She obviously causes you more harm and distress than happiness. Having personal issues is no excuse for her to be treating you like this. In my eyes you are putting way more effort in this relationship than she ever will. I might be wrong but that's how I judge your posts to this forum. And her breaking up with you is probably a good time to accept this and try to get over all of it. Enjoy life, have fun, get out there and meet new people. Travel and keep an open mind and heart.

 

I guess. It's just I know she's bipolar. Her friends keep giving her the idea that I'm going to cheat on her because she wants to wait till marriage so not once in our relationship have we had sex. Her friends tell her that I'm going to start looking for it somewhere else. Which is nothing true.

 

She freaked yesterday when I didn't call her or anything. Beg her back basically like every other time. She did it this time.

 

When she goes on this blind rage she says anything. At the end it's always my fault though. Don't know how it is.

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I guess. It's just I know she's bipolar. Her friends keep giving her the idea that I'm going to cheat on her because she wants to wait till marriage so not once in our relationship have we had sex. Her friends tell her that I'm going to start looking for it somewhere else. Which is nothing true.

 

She freaked yesterday when I didn't call her or anything. Beg her back basically like every other time. She did it this time.

 

When she goes on this blind rage she says anything. At the end it's always my fault though. Don't know how it is.

 

So sorry Ani... It isn't your fault, especially if you're giving her no reason for her to think you're being unfaithful. Insecurity is so hard to deal with... I have my bouts here and there, but I know it's in my head and nothing my partner is doing wrong. It lasts a few hours at most and I snap out of it. Others, it's hard for them to do so... and until they can, nothing you can say or do can really take that insecurity away. They have to be willing to trust you 100% because even if you are faithful, they won't see it unless they work on themselves. Hang in there.

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amayana

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Sad this eve as we wondered about having xmas together, even though we only just saw each other, but flights are too expensive :( Trying not to cry, shouldn't have started looking forward to it as it wasn't even a definite thing, just miss him, and didn't say goodbye properly on Monday as there was no time, xmas would've been so lovely.

But others have it far worse than me, so I am thankful for what I have.

 

I'm so sad for you HOH, hang in there! It sucks not being able to say goodbye properly and it also sucks not being able to spend the holidays with the people/person you love. It's good that you're being grateful and trying to think positively. I'm sure that helps.

I had a bit of a rough time too. I was going to study abroad at my boyfriend's school in the US but because of a few admin issues between our 2 schools I won't be able to go there after all. I will be in the US but about 14 hrs away from him but I keep thinking that at least we'll be in the same country for a couple of months and the time difference won't be as bad. My thoughts are with you, stay strong! There's hope for all of us

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amayana

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I guess. It's just I know she's bipolar. Her friends keep giving her the idea that I'm going to cheat on her because she wants to wait till marriage so not once in our relationship have we had sex. Her friends tell her that I'm going to start looking for it somewhere else. Which is nothing true.

 

She freaked yesterday when I didn't call her or anything. Beg her back basically like every other time. She did it this time.

 

When she goes on this blind rage she says anything. At the end it's always my fault though. Don't know how it is.

 

I understand that her being bipolar is not anyone's fault and that's the way it is. But if it's constantly dragging you down and making you feel worthless, you have to let go of her to save yourself. It's great to be selfless and to give all your love and attention to a person who's important to you but if that person starts making you feel miserable, it's different. I'm not encouraging you to be selfish but I do encourage you to think of yourself, your sanity, your well-being!

She has to learn how to trust you. Trust is so very important. If you don't have it in a relationship it won't be able to last (especially LDRs). It's something she has to work on. I think it's sad that her friends tell her such horrible things instead of supporting her relationship with you. And it's also sad and questionable that she trusts her friends more than she trusts you. Do her friends even know you? What gives them the right to say those things about you? From experience I know that on-off relationships are no good. And they're relationships you have to walk away from, no matter how much you love someone. You must love yourself before you love another, you know.

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Life'sGood

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Hello! I am now back from meeting my SO, our trip was supposed to be for 5 days and 4 nights but it was cut short on his side because he had to leave. I was devastated! We have everything planned. Next time, I wouldn't put too much hope in anything because I realised now that plans can change ANYTIME! I cried myself to sleep the day he told me he had to go.

 

I am trying to be more optimistic now. At least we get to spend that few moments together and I really appreciate them. Now, it's March and April! Dates are not set yet, but he might be coming to visit me and meet my family!

 

p/s I posted this in a wrong thread earlier :p

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Eighteen days... And I need it. I'm really feeling the strain right now. I know he loves me, but I'm starting to feel out of sight/out of mind-- like he's so comfortable he believes he can back burner me and I'll be fine with it. I need to see him and feel like this is real. We've both been really stressed out, and I need a few normal days with him, in person.

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ladyabstrused

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Have a great time here in England! :)

 

Thank you! :)

 

I am having a wonderful time despite being shivering cold here lol. :bunny:

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3 days. These past 3 weeks felt like 3 months, not kidding. We both have finals, we're both stressed... We've nagged at each other and his being ill, "too ill to skype", made me even grumpier than I already am. And sad too I guess. Trying not to take it all out on him although I probably did a bit. Silly me... *sigh* I just need him here... NOW. Need to be patient.

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HeavenOrHell

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I understand totally :( Only 3 days now though :)

 

 

3 days. These past 3 weeks felt like 3 months, not kidding. We both have finals, we're both stressed... We've nagged at each other and his being ill, "too ill to skype", made me even grumpier than I already am. And sad too I guess. Trying not to take it all out on him although I probably did a bit. Silly me... *sigh* I just need him here... NOW. Need to be patient.
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