Life'sGood Posted April 8, 2013 Share Posted April 8, 2013 Because it's already Monday here, now I can say that it's next week! I am excited and nervous! It will be my longest flight and it will be in a place much different than where I've travelled before. AND we are going to a Ball! I'll be meeting all his colleagues. *sweating* I hope everything will go well! I hope everyone's plan will have a great time on your meetings too! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 Finally a countdown again! 27 (very busy, very stressful) days. Yes, finals aren't great. We'll survive, hopefully! And more good news: I'm moving to he US for 6 months. Sadly we will still be long-distance (IA/NY) but at least we'll be in the same country and the time difference will be reduced to only one hour. Maybe that's a great opportunity for me to get to know as many people as possible. Maybe someone will offer me a job, haha! Excited! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 Finally a countdown again! 27 (very busy, very stressful) days. Yes, finals aren't great. We'll survive, hopefully! And more good news: I'm moving to he US for 6 months. Sadly we will still be long-distance (IA/NY) but at least we'll be in the same country and the time difference will be reduced to only one hour. Maybe that's a great opportunity for me to get to know as many people as possible. Maybe someone will offer me a job, haha! Excited! And not to mention, it will be easier to spend long weekends together and take getaways! Happy for you! 93 days for us. :/ The upside is we can save $ for summer time adventures. Link to post Share on other sites
deepend2000 Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 8 Days for me !!!! AUS - US 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PepperPotts Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 30 days!!! And then three days after that I move 3 Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 11 days 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Vivanna Posted April 21, 2013 Share Posted April 21, 2013 286 days... Link to post Share on other sites
Norene Posted April 21, 2013 Share Posted April 21, 2013 10 days can't wait. Especially since I recently told him I love him for the first time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
deepend2000 Posted April 21, 2013 Share Posted April 21, 2013 3 days!!! Aus - US 2 Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 4 days, but I'm not sure I'm looking forward to it Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 4 days, but I'm not sure I'm looking forward to it why not? what happened? Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 28, 2013 Share Posted April 28, 2013 I'm struggling with him being closed and undemonstrative when we're apart, and the fact he took moving closer off the agenda a couple of years ago, after putting the idea there in the first place. When we're together everything is wonderful and he's demonstrative/affectionate, and things feels right/good, but we're not together most of the time, a lot of the time things DO feel good when apart, but I have a lot of phases where they don't, because of him being so closed. I've told him I'm struggling and why, he said we can talk about it this week, I'm thinking he'll bail as that's the easiest option for him. See him tomorrow, if my migraine has gone by then, if not then I miss a day and see him Tues til Thurs. Thanks for asking x why not? what happened? Link to post Share on other sites
waiting4u Posted April 28, 2013 Share Posted April 28, 2013 9 days :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
edgygirl Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 Didn't see him for a month, since we first met. We spent this weekend together and hopefully will next one as well - so 5 days. We're in different countries but only 1 hour flight away. Saw him this morning before he went to airport and although it's a new relationship, I am now realizing I'm already missing him terribly. Wow. Link to post Share on other sites
PepperPotts Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 SIXTEEN DAYS! IT'S FINALLY MAY! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted May 3, 2013 Share Posted May 3, 2013 I hope talking to him about it went well, HoH. It's interesting that sometimes I feel the same towards my boyfriend as you do. Feeling like he's not demonstrative enough when we're apart but maybe he can't really change that because if he could I'm sure he would. I don't know, hm. We had a very rough time last weekend (I cried, then we argued, then he cried, ugh...) but all's well now and we talked it through. It's hard going through a rough patch when you can't sit with your partner, face-to-face, talking sth through so I'm glad you can do that! Hope you're well xx I'm struggling with him being closed and undemonstrative when we're apart, and the fact he took moving closer off the agenda a couple of years ago, after putting the idea there in the first place. When we're together everything is wonderful and he's demonstrative/affectionate, and things feels right/good, but we're not together most of the time, a lot of the time things DO feel good when apart, but I have a lot of phases where they don't, because of him being so closed. I've told him I'm struggling and why, he said we can talk about it this week, I'm thinking he'll bail as that's the easiest option for him. See him tomorrow, if my migraine has gone by then, if not then I miss a day and see him Tues til Thurs. Thanks for asking x Link to post Share on other sites
kiwildr Posted May 3, 2013 Share Posted May 3, 2013 5 weeks & 5 days NZ to US - so excited and nervous all in one. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted May 3, 2013 Share Posted May 3, 2013 July hopefully, for about 10 days. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted May 4, 2013 Share Posted May 4, 2013 Thank you Problem is when we're together everything feels right and there's no need to talk about anything heavy, just want to enjoy my time with him. Bottom line is it's the distance which is the problem, not being with him, when we're cuddling, spending time together the problems disappear and things feel so good. It does sound like your partner and mine are similar in some ways, it is a big challenge having a partner who isn't demonstrative when apart in an LDR. If he weren't demonstrative when together we wouldn't have lasted long. Glad you managed to sort things out last weekend... Hope you're well, and happy xx I hope talking to him about it went well, HoH. It's interesting that sometimes I feel the same towards my boyfriend as you do. Feeling like he's not demonstrative enough when we're apart but maybe he can't really change that because if he could I'm sure he would. I don't know, hm. We had a very rough time last weekend (I cried, then we argued, then he cried, ugh...) but all's well now and we talked it through. It's hard going through a rough patch when you can't sit with your partner, face-to-face, talking sth through so I'm glad you can do that! Hope you're well xx 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Trufita Posted May 4, 2013 Share Posted May 4, 2013 87 days , although I'm not completely sure because he will have to work very hard in the summer (he just got a job, he starts in june!) and I don't know anybody in London apart from him. What will I do everyday till 7 PM when he gets home? Any ideas? If I didn't go, it would be two more months till we could meet... I don't want to be bored as hell in my summer holidays, but I don't want to be more than 4 months without seeing him... Link to post Share on other sites
Aicha Posted May 5, 2013 Share Posted May 5, 2013 13 days i am visiting him from London. he is in ireland. love him so much Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 87 days , although I'm not completely sure because he will have to work very hard in the summer (he just got a job, he starts in june!) and I don't know anybody in London apart from him. What will I do everyday till 7 PM when he gets home? Any ideas? If I didn't go, it would be two more months till we could meet... I don't want to be bored as hell in my summer holidays, but I don't want to be more than 4 months without seeing him... Have you already been to London before? And how long were you planning on being there? Why not do some sightseeing, going for walks, go shopping, etc. Good thing about London is public transport so you don't need to rely on anyone to drive you around or anything like that. You could still spend evenings (and I guess weekends?) with him when he's not working. I can imagine that you're worried about being bored but you won't if you get out there even if it's on your own. I visited my boyfriend several times at college and he was in class most of the time or studying. I would get bored sometimes because I had nowhere to go (no car, not really any public transport or interesting places to go to) so I got to know his friends and roommates and they hung out with me when he was busy. It was still worth going to see him and I didn't regret it! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 Thank you Problem is when we're together everything feels right and there's no need to talk about anything heavy, just want to enjoy my time with him. Bottom line is it's the distance which is the problem, not being with him, when we're cuddling, spending time together the problems disappear and things feel so good. It does sound like your partner and mine are similar in some ways, it is a big challenge having a partner who isn't demonstrative when apart in an LDR. If he weren't demonstrative when together we wouldn't have lasted long. Glad you managed to sort things out last weekend... Hope you're well, and happy xx It's always the distance, isn't it? But the moments together always make up for it somehow and make waiting for the next visit a bit less painful. I knew he wouldn't be as demonstrative as me when apart (sometimes I come up with these long romantic tirades on skype, haha!). He told me once that he just couldn't tell me how much he loved me in a text and he refused to do that. Of course he tells me every day but I know where he's coming from. When we're together I get the extra treatment and he needs A LOT of loving (which does not annoy me at all) Like you, I think we wouldn't have lasted long if he hadn't been able to show me his affection. And I am happy, yes. Thank you! he's thinking of doing his MSc here in the UK, which would mean we would be united again for a while. But who knows, I'm not getting my hopes up (yet...) I hate disappointments! xx Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted May 11, 2013 Share Posted May 11, 2013 2 days for me now 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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