nicole430 Posted September 28, 2008 Share Posted September 28, 2008 my date has been pushed back by a few days...he just found out the actual date that he is flying back home is now oct 13th which means he will be back in the states oct 14th....so i guess 4 extra days isnt so bad im gonna miss having the exact same countdown as you...but we can still pretend lol Link to post Share on other sites
Rollercoasterr Posted September 28, 2008 Share Posted September 28, 2008 Aw, that sucks. When you've been counting down since 72, 4 extra little days can seem like an eternity. 12 more. Link to post Share on other sites
nicole430 Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Aw, that sucks. When you've been counting down since 72, 4 extra little days can seem like an eternity. well actually i thought the opposite, i figured that since its been so long already, that a few more days wont hurt 12 more. grrr dont remind me lol jk Link to post Share on other sites
Krisa Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Hello everyone, haven't been on in awhile...if you remember I GOT MARRIED! We had a wonderful wedding in Scotland, everything was perfect, even the weather. So i'm back in the states...and my HUSBAND ( i love saying that) will be here in 24 days!! he can only stay for 90 days...we are waiting for his visa...and i think its going to take forever.... Has anyone heard from Maid??? Link to post Share on other sites
crimsonrose Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 I have 93 days left. I'm counting down to January because I'm not sure the exact day in January I'll be going. It all depends on ticket prices, which can sometimes be cheaper on day than another. I'm thinking January 6th. I just got back from seeing him 5 days ago. Seems like months ago though. The first time we saw each other he visited me for 10 days. Then 5 months later I visited him for 12 days. Then just 5 days ago it was for 23 days. Now, this time, the visit should be for a little over 2 months. I'm excited but still raw from just having gotten home from his home in Australia, so it's hard to be excited about the future visit when I'd rather jsut rewind to this past one. Link to post Share on other sites
Maggs Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Well if I book my flight for the day I'm planning, it's 70 days. So exactly 10 weeks! Link to post Share on other sites
crimsonrose Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Well if I book my flight for the day I'm planning, it's 70 days. So exactly 10 weeks! I'm excited for ya. I'm also relieved to see that most people that have posted in this thread are waiting about the same about of time as me: between 70-90 something days. Link to post Share on other sites
Brikle Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Hello everyone, haven't been on in awhile...if you remember I GOT MARRIED! We had a wonderful wedding in Scotland, everything was perfect, even the weather. Firstly, congratulations =].. SECONDLY, I assume it's always been a long distance relationship? There was never a time at which you lived together? Sorry, this is really straying from the topic, but if it HAS always been long distance, how did you meet? My girlfriend is Dutch, I'm English, we're both 18. As of October last year we've been flying back and forth to see each other at least once a month, until the summer, in which we spent 2 months together. I took seeing her every month for granted and 2 weeks ago she left for Thailand, where she'll be doing volunteer work for 4 MONTHS. I was under the impression that when you get into a LDR you're supposed to work to increase the amount of time you spend together, by reducing the distance. Not by increasing it tenfold. I plan to fly out there for the last 3 weeks but it's going to be expensive. So I suppose it's anywhere between about 90 and 100 days for me. Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted September 30, 2008 Share Posted September 30, 2008 Just found out today he'll be here in 3 days!!! Link to post Share on other sites
nicole430 Posted September 30, 2008 Share Posted September 30, 2008 Just found out today he'll be here in 3 days!!! aww congratulations! you mustbe soo excited how long will be there for? 14 more dayss for meeee this countdown has been killing me Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted September 30, 2008 Share Posted September 30, 2008 He'll only be here for a few days, but he's bringing with him most of his belongings to his new house which is only an hour away Sure beats 14! He has to go back home to return his dad's truck, he'll work for a couple more weeks. By the end of October, he'll be here permanently! Link to post Share on other sites
riotgrrl Posted September 30, 2008 Share Posted September 30, 2008 im leaving tomorrow night - early so ill be home with my boyfriend on thursday hes taking a half day at work so we can be together - can't wait!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
EMBeee Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 Next Friday he is on his way to see me with a long 20 hour drive ahead of him. He and his friend are traveling here straight taking turns behind the wheel of course!!! So that makes....... 10 more days! YAY!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
islandboy786 Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 in the end of october so about 20 something days ill see my hunny again Link to post Share on other sites
riotgrrl Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 uggggh its after 1am my time and i cant sleep. i have my last day of work in north carolina from 9a-7p and then i come and pick up my dog/say goodbye to family and leave for the 8 hour trip back to pa. i don't know how i am going to drive so long when i can't sleep tonight because im so excited!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
nicole430 Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 uggggh its after 1am my time and i cant sleep. i have my last day of work in north carolina from 9a-7p and then i come and pick up my dog/say goodbye to family and leave for the 8 hour trip back to pa. i don't know how i am going to drive so long when i can't sleep tonight because im so excited!!!! ahh i cannot sleep either and i have to be at work at 9am! So loveshack it is. Be careful driving, it is so dangerous to drive while sleepy. Im sure you will still be so excited your eyes will be glued to the road the whole time lol. ahh 13 more days for me Link to post Share on other sites
Krisa Posted October 2, 2008 Share Posted October 2, 2008 Firstly, congratulations =].. SECONDLY, I assume it's always been a long distance relationship? There was never a time at which you lived together? Yes it's always been long distance. No, we never have lived together. Actually him coming to the States this month for 3 months is the longest we will have been together at one time since we have been together. Sorry, this is really straying from the topic, but if it HAS always been long distance, how did you meet? We met online. First and only person I have ever met from online, and i'm the first person he has met. we started off just very friendly...and well now we are married!! I've been doing the long distance thing for about as long as you...we met in Oct 2007. Well...I don't know what you two have talked about and desided. But my husband and I said from the start this is not something we can just let linger..... if things aren't going well we call them off, and if they are going well, we need the "next step". I think you need that in a LDR, because if you don't have it, it makes it twice as hard as it always is. (you know you sit at home and think what now...where do we go from here, blah blah blah...) Her moving farther away seems like a back step, although, she can't stop her life to wait for you. She has a life without you, just as I have a life without my husband when he's not here. You can't put everything on hold...just my thoughts. Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted October 2, 2008 Share Posted October 2, 2008 It's mere hours until I get to see him! Probably around 7 or 8. Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted October 2, 2008 Share Posted October 2, 2008 Half an hour! My heart is racing right now, can't focus on work, so I'm ditching out early! haha I love being the boss! Link to post Share on other sites
crimsonrose Posted October 3, 2008 Share Posted October 3, 2008 Firstly, congratulations =].. SECONDLY, I assume it's always been a long distance relationship? There was never a time at which you lived together? Sorry, this is really straying from the topic, but if it HAS always been long distance, how did you meet? My girlfriend is Dutch, I'm English, we're both 18. As of October last year we've been flying back and forth to see each other at least once a month, until the summer, in which we spent 2 months together. I took seeing her every month for granted and 2 weeks ago she left for Thailand, where she'll be doing volunteer work for 4 MONTHS. I was under the impression that when you get into a LDR you're supposed to work to increase the amount of time you spend together, by reducing the distance. Not by increasing it tenfold. I plan to fly out there for the last 3 weeks but it's going to be expensive. So I suppose it's anywhere between about 90 and 100 days for me. ive got 89 days till I see my fiance (I think. close enough). And when I got home from visiting him a week ago it seemed like an eternity. its getting better though. we're used to seeing each other once every 5-6 months, and I know that's torture. I can't imagine being used to seeing him EVERY MONTH and then not seeing him for 4 months. that's gotta be hard. i imagine we'll be seeing our loves around the same time. so good luck to you! and i hope you two can talk alot and maybe webcam a few times? Link to post Share on other sites
nicole430 Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 10 days almost into the single digits! Link to post Share on other sites
crimsonrose Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 10 days almost into the single digits! Lucky thing. How long will you two be visiting together? Link to post Share on other sites
nicole430 Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 he will be back in our hometown for good. In the middle of july he got a call from his lawyer that he managed to get his temporary green card, which was completely unexpected and out of the blue. 5 days later was the last time i saw him because he hopped on a plane and left to go back home in Europe to see his parents that he hasnt seen in 10 years. I just found out the other week that he will be home this month! So I am pretty lucky that out of the 2 years that we have been together, he has only been gone for 3 months, but last year I started college about 100 miles from our hometown, so I guess that is kinda LDR, althought I come home to visit him and my family every 2 weeks or so. I think i remember you saying that you have about 70 days or so until you can see your fiancee..how long will you guys get to see eachother? Link to post Share on other sites
N2Natasha Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 I just got back from 8 incredible days with my woman in Montenegro. It was an incredible time together! It is so hard to come back to my life without her though, to wake up alone once again. Our new countdown is 99 days until we meet in Paris, January 13. Link to post Share on other sites
nicole430 Posted October 6, 2008 Share Posted October 6, 2008 Half an hour! My heart is racing right now, can't focus on work, so I'm ditching out early! haha I love being the boss! you are so lucky! i hope you are having a great time!!! getting down to the wee bitty days and hours are the worst i think in my opinion! they just kill you! Link to post Share on other sites
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