HeavenOrHell Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 Supposed to be in 3 days but traveling is not possible at the moment because of the floods here, really c*ap timing, so don't know if it's going to happen or not, also my hormones are screwed up and I'm not going to feel like going if I've got a 2 day migraine Might have to meet xmas instead. Obstacles in the way, argh Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 Aw, how lovely, you're lucky, my partner's ex was 'the love of his life', I don't think I come anywhere close really, I thought my ex was the love of mine, but I think we can have more than one in a lifetime. I don't find saying goodbye too hard, I feel a bit sad, but also on a high from having been with him, except last time, coming back to my empty dark house after 10 days with him was pretty horrible and lonely. I don't know if he feels sad when we say goodbye or not. Does anyone else just hate saying goodbye? We seem to cry like two babies every time one of us leaves... But I had a great, great week to say the least. My SO doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve usually but he said two things he's never said before. He called me the 'love of his life' and he said he would like to marry me at some point. Holy cow...! haha!! New countdown is 19 days (!!) and then I'll be picking him up from the infamous London Heathrow airport Link to post Share on other sites
CherryT Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 Does anyone else just hate saying goodbye? We seem to cry like two babies every time one of us leaves... But I had a great, great week to say the least. My SO doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve usually but he said two things he's never said before. He called me the 'love of his life' and he said he would like to marry me at some point. Holy cow...! haha!! New countdown is 19 days (!!) and then I'll be picking him up from the infamous London Heathrow airport Wow, that's quite the statement to say. I am very happy for you. How long have you two been together? My boyfriend just left but I will be seeing him next week for his brothers wedding. He hasn't said anything like that to me just yet... but I'm taking his initiatives and him wanting me to meet his family as notes that he's serious. We've only been together for 5 months, but I hope to hear that. I'd like to close the distance in a year. We don't cry, but we are definitely bummed out. We do our best to see each other at least every 4-6 weeks. We miss each other immediately though and express that... just haven't had tears yet. haha 1 Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 (edited) Does anyone else just hate saying goodbye? We seem to cry like two babies every time one of us leaves... But I had a great, great week to say the least. My SO doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve usually but he said two things he's never said before. He called me the 'love of his life' and he said he would like to marry me at some point. Holy cow...! haha!! Awww That's very sweet. So happy for you Amayana. When it's time to pack my things (or he his), I cry like the emotional infant I am. He's better at containing his emotions but I completely revert to childlike behavior. On the airplane home, I kept a blanket over my head for the first 3 hours, refusing to interact with anyone, and also wanting to avoid witnessing the affectionate antics of the couple sitting next to me. They were just twisting the knife. New countdown is 19 days (!!) and then I'll be picking him up from the infamous London Heathrow airport Heathrow's seeing a lot of LDR love these days! Enjoy! On Topic: 23 days!! Let's meet for that pint, Emilia! Edited November 27, 2012 by cerridwen 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 (edited) Looking unlikely we can meet in London this week because of the weather, gutted Really c*ap timing, don't remember rail problems like this before. If things are looking no better tomorrow I'll cancel the 3 hotels and he'll see if he can get a last minute flight to the airport nearest to me instead, depends if it's booked up or not. So we'll lose our train and flight money, but hopefully get refunded for the hotels if I cancel in time. We were going to Brighton as well to stay, and see a band Edited; The problem is with me getting to London because the trains are screwed up, but he said he'll try and find a way to me here instead of meeting in London, so I'm more hopeful than I was, depends on how the public transport situation is though, not easy getting last minute tickets and there's going to be over crowding. Wish us luck! Edited November 27, 2012 by HeavenOrHell Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 Aw, bless you... I know what you mean about that twisting the knife feeling, I feel guilty but at times it's really hard seeing couples cuddling and kissing, just magnifies what we're missing out on day to day Awww That's very sweet. So happy for you Amayana. When it's time to pack my things (or he his), I cry like the emotional infant I am. He's better at containing his emotions but I completely revert to childlike behavior. On the airplane home, I kept a blanket over my head for the first 3 hours, refusing to interact with anyone, and also wanting to avoid witnessing the affectionate antics of the couple sitting next to me. They were just twisting the knife. Heathrow's seeing a lot of LDR love these days! Enjoy! On Topic: 23 days!! Let's meet for that pint, Emilia! Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 Aw, how lovely, you're lucky, my partner's ex was 'the love of his life', I don't think I come anywhere close really, I thought my ex was the love of mine, but I think we can have more than one in a lifetime. I don't find saying goodbye too hard, I feel a bit sad, but also on a high from having been with him, except last time, coming back to my empty dark house after 10 days with him was pretty horrible and lonely. I don't know if he feels sad when we say goodbye or not. I'm sure you can have many 'great loves' in your life, I don't believe in that one true love thing No one had ever told me I was their 'love of their life' and surely no one had ever talked about marriage so I didn't know what to make of it. I did laugh lightly and he said he was serious so I just smiled. It was a bit strange for me to say the least! But I thought it was a sweet thing to be told I wish I'd feel less sad and more 'high' every time I leave. Every time I think I'll be fine I start crying after all as soon as I'm about to go through security at the airport. For some reason it's because everything always seems so uncertain in a way. I'm an anxious and very sensitive person in general. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 Looking unlikely we can meet in London this week because of the weather, gutted Really c*ap timing, don't remember rail problems like this before. If things are looking no better tomorrow I'll cancel the 3 hotels and he'll see if he can get a last minute flight to the airport nearest to me instead, depends if it's booked up or not. So we'll lose our train and flight money, but hopefully get refunded for the hotels if I cancel in time. We were going to Brighton as well to stay, and see a band Edited; The problem is with me getting to London because the trains are screwed up, but he said he'll try and find a way to me here instead of meeting in London, so I'm more hopeful than I was, depends on how the public transport situation is though, not easy getting last minute tickets and there's going to be over crowding. Wish us luck! Ya the weather is so bad around these parts... It just won't stop raining. I'm sorry it's preventing you to see your SO, that's just unfair. I hope you'll manage to see him after all. Fingers crossed! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 Wow, that's quite the statement to say. I am very happy for you. How long have you two been together? My boyfriend just left but I will be seeing him next week for his brothers wedding. He hasn't said anything like that to me just yet... but I'm taking his initiatives and him wanting me to meet his family as notes that he's serious. We've only been together for 5 months, but I hope to hear that. I'd like to close the distance in a year. We don't cry, but we are definitely bummed out. We do our best to see each other at least every 4-6 weeks. We miss each other immediately though and express that... just haven't had tears yet. haha We've been together for 9 months in a few days, so not that long at all! I was surprised about him admitting it to me. I didn't expect that from him. Lately I had been thinking to myself that I would like to marry him if we were going to last. He definitely didn't mean he'd marry me tomorrow but that it was on his mind to do that when we're both ready for this huge commitment. I'm pretty sure that generally people are afraid to admit things like that. It's a pretty big deal. He said he'd love to tell his family that I'm the 'real deal' to him but he's afraid they won't take him seriously and I feel exactly the same. It is a bit early to bring it up! And I'm pretty sure that him wanting you to meet his family is a very good sign! Link to post Share on other sites
Mitten_Love Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I have 1.5 years left! Seems like forever though. I graduated from college and he's finishing up. I hate living in a new city alone. I get so sad and lonely because we are only able to see each other every other month. I used to cry every morning and night because I missed him so much. Now I'm adjusting. Every once in awhile I have a breakdown, but he's very supportive and lets me cry over the phone to him. That's why I love him. I can't wait for him to move here! Only 1.5 years!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PepperPotts Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 Ahhhh 29 dayyyys! It feels so close and like forever at the same time. I overdid it this semester trying to stay busy to make time go faster, have been sick and have had a lot of family problems (death, surgery, illness, you name it), so I've been wicked stressed out and it has stressed US out. I need this trip. Badly. I need to feel his arms around me and I need to tell him in person how sorry I am for the crappy mood I've been in for the better part of a month. But it's also only 169 days until we're done with the distance and we're finally together, out in the Rockies. I'm ready to go home. Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 (edited) Looking unlikely we can meet in London this week because of the weather, gutted Really c*ap timing, don't remember rail problems like this before. If things are looking no better tomorrow I'll cancel the 3 hotels and he'll see if he can get a last minute flight to the airport nearest to me instead, depends if it's booked up or not. So we'll lose our train and flight money, but hopefully get refunded for the hotels if I cancel in time. We were going to Brighton as well to stay, and see a band Edited; The problem is with me getting to London because the trains are screwed up, but he said he'll try and find a way to me here instead of meeting in London, so I'm more hopeful than I was, depends on how the public transport situation is though, not easy getting last minute tickets and there's going to be over crowding. Wish us luck! Best of luck, HOH! This man is braving the flood waters and moving heaven and earth to get to you. This is love. Enjoy and you're in my thoughts! Edited November 28, 2012 by cerridwen 2 Link to post Share on other sites
meeji Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 52 days!...and the countdown begins again lol Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 Still don't know if we can meet, he said if needs be he can go back home again if I can't get to London, yesterday he said he'd try and get to me if need be, guess he changed his mind. I've had a horrible day going around in circles trying to work out which trains are running, getting conflicting info. Spent a lot of the day crying. It's taken the joy out of meeting up, all just become a stressful thing instead. Link to post Share on other sites
Aquamelon Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 42 days left until I fly out to see him. It hasn't been bad so far. Just for the past 2 weeks I have been sick which makes me crabby and pick fights. Last night we booked for February! Valentine's day weekend and also our 1 year anniversary. Link to post Share on other sites
befreckled Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 The bf left two days ago. Our next date is in 75 days! It also will be the last time in a long time - hopefully forever! Link to post Share on other sites
highwaychile Posted November 30, 2012 Share Posted November 30, 2012 9 days until I leave! 26 hours of traveling later and I'll feel her tackle me with the biggest hug in the world as I get through customs. I. Can't. Wait! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Cafe au lait Posted November 30, 2012 Share Posted November 30, 2012 51 days. I'm a bit nervous but excited too! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wonderlandless Posted November 30, 2012 Share Posted November 30, 2012 Exactly two weeks from today and I can't wait! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Life'sGood Posted November 30, 2012 Share Posted November 30, 2012 Hi. I am new here and I have been reading this for quite some time now, but now, I register just so that I can post my answer! I'll be meeting him in 2 days after 3 months wait. This will be our third time meeting. I won't go into details of how we met, it will be out of this thread's topic! *so excited* 2 Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted November 30, 2012 Share Posted November 30, 2012 Hi. I am new here and I have been reading this for quite some time now' date=' but now, I register just so that I can post my answer! I'll be meeting him in 2 days after 3 months wait. This will be our third time meeting. I won't go into details of how we met, it will be out of this thread's topic! *so excited*[/quote'] Welcome Life'sGood (how funny that sounds!) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PepperPotts Posted December 1, 2012 Share Posted December 1, 2012 YOU GUYS-- IT'S DECEMBER!!! (25 days) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Life'sGood Posted December 2, 2012 Share Posted December 2, 2012 One more night! Everything's packed and double checked! Will triple check them before I go to the airport! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 12 days Link to post Share on other sites
ana0pera Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 ONE WEEK!!! And I've already mentally checked out of my academic responsibilities (fortunately I don't have any final exams and I was on top of my research quarter) 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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