soccerrprp Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 So that's after Holland wins that World Cup right? That's pretty soon then! And it's called football not soccer, dear man. :laugh: Sorry could not resist. Back to the topic! The Dutch have always been my sentimental favorites. But, go USA! (I know, I know no chance!) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TAV Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 The Dutch have always been my sentimental favorites. But, go USA! (I know, I know no chance!) Never say never! Think both Denmark and Greece winning the European Championship quite unexpectedly. It's a funny old game (as my bf says regularly). OK, really zipping it now before I get into problem with the moderator. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 1, 2014 Share Posted April 1, 2014 I'll PM you, owe you a couple anyway I'm sorry he does not feel ready to share his deep dark thoughts with you yet. How bad is the depression, HOH? Do you worry for him? I did for my bf at the time and probably still a month or so after. Getting help, taking meds and opening up to me and his sister seems to have helped him deal with things better. I say 'seems' because I know it's not a miracle cure. I understand what you mean about giving up on the contact, closeness and visits. It's pretty special when you seem to make that side of things work. Someone outside an LDR probably would not understand how hard that is in the first place. Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted April 3, 2014 Share Posted April 3, 2014 Thank you HOH! I read all about your situation. I don't like seeing you so unhappy. I hope you'll be able to sort everything out with your SO soon! Good to hear from you! Wishing you both all the best 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 5 1/2 weeks for 4 days, his flight's booked, just need to book somewhere to stay 4 Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 5 1/2 weeks for 4 days, his flight's booked, just need to book somewhere to stay Are you going somewhere special? Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 London, we enjoy meeting there, lots to do and lots to eat It's our halfway point Are you going somewhere special? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Viking-Liz Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Hopefully by 15th of may. Just waiting for his job to respond about his annual leave now! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
dragoncanfly Posted April 8, 2014 Share Posted April 8, 2014 111 more days. Day 5 in a LDR. Just joined this forum. *waves* 5 Link to post Share on other sites
ThisGal Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 (edited) Update: I mentioned last time he went to two job interviews in my state when he was here for a week to visit me. Both jobs reached out to him and offered him the positions. That was a first for him to have 2 jobs wanting him at the same time lol. He chose one and is starting in 3 weeks. He is moving to my state in 2 weeks! He has already begun packing all his stuff. He hates throwing all his things in a box lol. He found an apartment close to my home. We are getting married in October! 6 months. That was a short engagement as he only proposed to me 2 weeks ago lol. We'll be moving in together after marriage. We're excited how great things have turned out. We are truly blessed to have met one another and I'm looking forward to this new journey. We already have a lot of the wedding stuff out of the way; church/ceremony, venue, favors ordered, caterer, cake, save the date, and many more things left to do and more money to waste. Oooyyy!! But exciting none the less I truly hope everyone has been well and I wish you all the best. You know your relationship better than anyone else so keep your head up and push on to make it work. It's worth it in the end. This site holds a special place in my heart. It kept me sane and focused. Sorry to sound so sappy lol. Take care. God bless. Edited April 11, 2014 by ThisGal 7 Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Congratulations! Very happy to hear this!! Best of luck for the future Update: I mentioned last time he went to two job interviews in my state when he was here for a week to visit me. Both jobs reached out to him and offered him the positions. That was a first for him to have 2 jobs wanting him at the same time lol. He chose one and is starting in 3 weeks. He is moving to my state in 2 weeks! He has already begun packing all his stuff. He hates throwing all his things in a box lol. He found an apartment close to my home. We are getting married in October! 6 months. That was a short engagement as he only proposed to me 2 weeks ago lol. We'll be moving in together after marriage. We're excited how great things have turned out. We are truly blessed to have met one another and I'm looking forward to this new journey. We already have a lot of the wedding stuff out of the way; church/ceremony, venue, favors ordered, caterer, cake, save the date, and many more things left to do and more money to waste. Oooyyy!! But exciting none the less I truly hope everyone has been well and I wish you all the best. You know your relationship better than anyone else so keep your head up and push on to make it work. It's worth it in the end. This site holds a special place in my heart. It kept me sane and focused. Sorry to sound so sappy lol. Take care. God bless. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amayana Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Haha! This made me curious about our halfway point so I checked and that would be the Atlantic ocean, haha. Maybe we could meet on a boat or something London, we enjoy meeting there, lots to do and lots to eat It's our halfway point 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ThisGal Posted April 12, 2014 Share Posted April 12, 2014 Thank you, ladies! Link to post Share on other sites
MelissaM22 Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 I'll have to wait 111 days until I see him again.. It's been 7 months so far since I've seen him. Link to post Share on other sites
Aki Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Hello, guys! I just found this forum. Nice to be here. I am in long distance relationships too and now i have to wait for 43 days to hug him again. Hope it will pass quickly. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Viking-Liz Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Congrats ThisGal! How wonderful! The best of luck to you two! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 3 weeks. He's really not doing too well lately, just want to hug him.. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
yum yum Posted April 21, 2014 Share Posted April 21, 2014 31 days to go Link to post Share on other sites
SaltwaterHeart Posted April 21, 2014 Share Posted April 21, 2014 11 days. Some pretty horrible stuff happening in both our lives right now so happy I get to hug him soon.. contemplated changing flights and leaving right now but can't really get away because of school/work. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Aviendha Posted April 21, 2014 Share Posted April 21, 2014 Three months down, 41 days to go. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 I miscounted, so it's still 3 weeks Link to post Share on other sites
ThisGal Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 (edited) Hi everyone! Another quick update. My fiance is arriving today! I can't wait to hug him! I'll be at work while he will be making the 12 hours drive. He is bringing a lot of stuff so his parents are coming along to drive the rented truck for him while he drives his stuffed car. They wanted to say goodbye to him and visit my family and I again. His parents are so sweet to me. Love them! They also wanted to see our new place. And they brought along new furniture and my mom bought some new furniture for our home, too. We can't wait to decorate our place. We really have some very loving parents. We have decided to move in together and so I've packed all my stuff and his parents and my family will be helping me move my stuff & his stuff in the apartment tomorrow. Then we'll all go to my mother's house for dinner. I'm so excited that I didn't have to move far away after all, I'm only 10 min away from home lol. My fiance found an amazing apartment, brand new and spacious so we couldn't pass that up! He starts his new job this Monday. We have just about everything done for our wedding in a few months. We can finally give wedding planning a break since we've done all the important things and still have 5 months left before the wedding. My mom bought my dress a few days ago. It's so pretty. We are blessed to have supportive family on both sides that have contributed to our new journey together. Anyway, that's the update. I miss this site. I hope everyone is doing well Edited April 25, 2014 by ThisGal 5 Link to post Share on other sites
TAV Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 39 days! By then it will be almost 5 months since I saw him last. Way too long but we are still here, that's what counts 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Viking-Liz Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 15 days until I can kiss my beautiful hubby again! And in the end of may we should have an indication on when we can close the gap 2 Link to post Share on other sites
soccerrprp Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Well, she's not happy with me right now (ain't stoppin' me...), but 10 days until I see her again and it will be the FINAL LDR visit!!! After this one, we make arrangements for us to be together, in the same town, mapping our lives together. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
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