Citizen Erased Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 BECAUSE HE IS NOT IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP!!! The last one he had was over one and half years ago and I'm SURE those condoms are not from back them. So that's why it means he is promiscuous!! It means he could be having sex with people he is not in a serious relationship. That's not the kind of guy I want. It will be almost impossible to find a guy who hasn't had sex outside a serious relationship. If you expect for someone to not have sex in one and a half years because they haven't found that special someone, well then yes you are crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 It will be almost impossible to find a guy who hasn't had sex outside a serious relationship. If you expect for someone to not have sex in one and a half years because they haven't found that special someone, well then yes you are crazy. Well, I went for six and a half years without sex before, from approx age 20-27 I think (approximately), it was a hell of a lot more than one and a half years. I don't see why it's impossible to expect a guy not to have had casual sex. I never had casual sex before. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 You're living in cuckoo land. Why is it living in cuckoo land to want to find someone who has had a limited amount of partners and hasn't engaged in casual sex? Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 Why is it living in cuckoo land to want to find someone who has had a limited amount of partners and hasn't engaged in casual sex? I agree you are in Cuckoo Land.. because how can you tell if the guy had casual sex with 100 partners or only had sex once in his life? Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 I agree you are in Cuckoo Land.. because how can you tell if the guy had casual sex with 100 partners or only had sex once in his life? Well, using that logic you would not be able to tell anything about a guy including if he ever cheated or he's sincere or anything at all for that matter. Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 Why is it living in cuckoo land to want to find someone who has had a limited amount of partners and hasn't engaged in casual sex? Male and female plumbing is different. Men 'physically' need to have sex or have some other form of release, on a regular basis. If a guy goes without it is quite painful. Have you ever heard of 'blue balls'? Women can go without sex for a long period of time. Men can't or masturbate a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 Male and female plumbing is different. Men 'physically' need to have sex or have some other form of release, on a regular basis. Women can go without sex for a long period of time. Men can't or masturbate a lot. Exactly, so males can masturbate. So no need for release with another female. Do you think I don't get horny because I am female and that it's easy for me not to have sex and that I can just turn it off? I probably masturbated every other day during the 6-7 years while I was celibate. Many many many times a day. I can get just as horny as any man. Probably hornier. I just chose not to have sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 Male and female plumbing is different. Men 'physically' need to have sex or have some other form of release, on a regular basis. If a guy goes without it is quite painful. Have you ever heard of 'blue balls'? Women can go without sex for a long period of time. Men can't or masturbate a lot. If you haven't it's a condition where a guy hasn't had sex or ejaculated in a while and the pressure builds up and the testicles become swollen and painful. The only way to solve this problem is by having sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 If you haven't it's a condition where a guy hasn't had sex or ejaculated in a while and the pressure builds up and the testicles become swollen and painful. The only way to solve this problem is by having sex. No, they can JACK OFF. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 And you might not relize this but a box of condoms has an expiration date of about 4 years or so. So if he bought a box and put it in his room they might have been sitting there a year or something and he may have had no sex that entire time so they don't get used up. I have a box of condoms, heck I even take one with me hidden in a tin protector if I'm going out on a date or something just because I like knowing I have it if I need it Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 Exactly, so males can masturbate. So no need for release with another female. Do you think I don't get horny because I am female and that it's easy for me not to have sex and that I can just turn it off? I probably masturbated every other day during the 6-7 years while I was celibate. Many many many times a day. I can get just as horny as any man. Probably hornier. I just chose not to have sex. Right now you are giving warning signs of 'DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH'. Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 No, they can JACK OFF. Why would a guy want to jack off just to keep you happy? Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 Right now you are giving warning signs of 'DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH'. Guys can JACK OFF. No need to have sex. The end result is still ejaculation. And what's wrong with me not having had sex for a long time and rather getting myself off? Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 And you might not relize this but a box of condoms has an expiration date of about 4 years or so. So if he bought a box and put it in his room they might have been sitting there a year or something and he may have had no sex that entire time so they don't get used up. I have a box of condoms, heck I even take one with me hidden in a tin protector if I'm going out on a date or something just because I like knowing I have it if I need it I thought condoms had a 6 month expiration date. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 Why would a guy want to jack off just to keep you happy? He doesn't have to. I would rather find a guy who hasn't had many partners or casual sex. I have the right to have any prerequisites I want. A lot of guys have them too; they want someone tall, or blonde, or college educated, or intelligent etc. This is just simply one ATTRIBUTE that I look for in a mate. If they don't meet my standards then great, there are plenty of fish out there. Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 Guys can JACK OFF. No need to have sex. The end result is still ejaculation. And what's wrong with me not having had sex for a long time and rather getting myself off? What's wrong with it is that you are projecting your expectations on to someone else. I don't know you but after this thread of yours, I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot barge pole. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 What's wrong with it is that you are projecting your expectations on to someone else. I don't know you but after this thread of yours, I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot barge pole. That's what people do when singling out someone to date. For example, imagine a guy who is religious and wants to find a woman who has similar convictions. Or someone who is college educated and searching for the same in a partner. My requirements are NO DIFFERENT. Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 He doesn't have to. I would rather find a guy who hasn't had many partners or casual sex. I have the right to have any prerequisites I want. A lot of guys have them too; they want someone tall, or blonde, or college educated, or intelligent etc. This is just simply one ATTRIBUTE that I look for in a mate. If they don't meet my standards then great, there are plenty of fish out there. Say hello to a lifetime of loneliness and no sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 EVERYONE projects their expectations on to someone else when looking for a mate. Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 He doesn't have to. I would rather find a guy who hasn't had many partners or casual sex. I have the right to have any prerequisites I want. A lot of guys have them too; they want someone tall, or blonde, or college educated, or intelligent etc. This is just simply one ATTRIBUTE that I look for in a mate. If they don't meet my standards then great, there are plenty of fish out there. What you're looking for is like saying you are looking for a guy that abstains from breathing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 Say hello to a lifetime of loneliness and no sex. So you are saying that there is not ONE man out there in the world around 30 who has NEVER had casual sex before? Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 EVERYONE projects their expectations on to someone else when looking for a mate. But your expectations are completely unrealistic. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutegirl Posted March 23, 2008 Author Share Posted March 23, 2008 What you're looking for is like saying you are looking for a guy that abstains from breathing. So casual sex is the same as breathing? A guy can still get release by jacking off. So what you are saying is that ALL men have had casual sex? I don't think its unrealistic to look for someone who has never had casual sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 So you are saying that there is not ONE man out there in the world around 30 who has NEVER had casual sex before? That's exactly what I am saying. Link to post Share on other sites
Rogue Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 So casual sex is the same as breathing? A guy can still get release by jacking off. So what you are saying is that ALL men have had casual sex? I don't think its unrealistic to look for someone who has never had casual sex. All men have casual sex. It is the way nature intended. Link to post Share on other sites
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