Jeoulsy now.....Am I thinking to much?

[just wonderin]

In the last year, I feel like our marriage is going down hill. He has to work out of town all the time and things that were said to me makes me wonder.

I wanted him to get a computer so that we could chat on the Instant messenger and to send pictures of the kids. Once he got it, he would get so upset if I came anywhere close to him while he was checking emails! Plus I had asked him to get on the instant messenger and chat with me and he flat refused and said that the hotel he was at , it was to expensive! but after he had gotten home, I had saw where he had beeen online at the same time frame and I found ladies profiles and chats(on the history) that he had been on. Plus also there is alot of porn sites on his email and I have found that there is ladies names with very personal subject lines and when i went to open them up, there was no ad or any text?

Would that be someting to wonder about?or junk emails?

Plus if he is on the road all the time by hiself, I would feel that he would get lonesome to call me and I feel that I have to do pretty much of the calling. Now as of yesterday, he tells me that his phone is messing up(might be the battery). So now I cannot get through to him for sure now supposely.

OH yea....plus at one time, my 13 year old son found on his profile that he had divorced on there! but it has been changed now! I asked him about it and he said he was just f****** around on the internet! I do not feel that he had to put that on there or was he really trying to tell me someting?duhhhh

I do not know if he has ever cheated....but with remarks that were said to me in the past from his buddylike for exmaple" No man can work out of town that long of time and not get alittle here and there!"

I try to trust him and all, but all of this other, just keeps bugging me to no end!

[Jamie31]

You really should sit down and talk to your husband about this. It seems like he is definently messing around on the internet all the time. If he won't open up to you, then I would just keep a watch on him and get some hard evidence against him and then present it to him and tell him you know what is going on and then jsut ask him why. And then take action from there.