pinkrazr Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 (edited) Alrite. I'm ready to blow my top. and I dont want to. My boyfriend is constantly on his msn. WHEN i'm not at his place. when I am there, he either turns it off. or sets himself to appear offline so no one messages him. I asked him why he does this and he said "I just think its rude to be sitting there chatting when i have someone over, thats all". For some reason that answer didn't satisfy me. i tried not to argue about it. but I just have a lingering feeling. I'm totally insecure. I've been with my B/f for 3 years now, and not once have met ANY of his girl-friends. he doesnt hang with them anymore, they all drifted, have kids, married, moved on to other things. when i asked him when they will come out with us sometime, he always says "yeah sure, i'll try". 3 years... nothing. even he doesnt see them. about a year ago he told me he was embarrassed of my insecurities, and doesnt want me to blow a gasket if one of them says the wrong thing jokingly or whatever. I felt like a total bitch. we had one chance a few weeks ago to see one of his friends, but when she called him back to go out, we were eating supper and he didnt answer. nor did he bother to call her back.... we didnt go out. I cant shake the feeling he's telling all these girls i'm some insecure bitch, and the safest way he can communicate with them is on msn. and makes sure i'm not around when he does. whats the deal? I totally tried to get over it. i wasnt mean to him about it. but he did get somewhat defensive. and threw the "i'm only on msn waiting for you to come online". he doesnt talk when i'm online.... so what the hell. am I being way too paranoid? I know people say trust their instincts. but my insecurities make me chicken little... the sky is going to fall... all the time. Help?!! anyone going through this too? your thoughts? Edited March 25, 2008 by pinkrazr spelling errors Link to post Share on other sites
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