Author HouseOfCards Posted March 26, 2008 Author Share Posted March 26, 2008 Sorry Carhill, haha. I just hope people get there's only so much I can do to keep things fresh on a college campus, and even less to do when we can't both go to a bar or something. Sounds nice except the show her my place part if you don't want something sexual to happen why show her your place? You should meet her some were public for the 1st time maybe a cafe near campus or something. Also think of it this way what if she turns out to be a total flake in real life you want her knowing exactly were you live? This won't be a problem. This is the only time I'll be seeing her until at least summer, and I won't be here over summer, I'll be at home, and she doesn't know where THAT is. When I return, I'll have a new apartment on-campus. And as for whoever called me weird for usually preferring the shy/reserved girls over the loud/outspoken girls... I agree with you. Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted March 26, 2008 Share Posted March 26, 2008 I think you took what melody said kinda out of text I think she pretty much hit the nail on the head. I'm glad you think so. Here's a bunny: My other alternative is to take her to a local concert (I don't think anyone's playing that weekend) or a campus club/bar (she's a few months shy of being able to get in). It's college. There are very limited options to how to spend your night sometimes, In other words, you have to get creative. The club/bar is probably a decent option considering what you have to work with. Take her there for some dancing. Is there a pool table there? Play some pool with her. Put goofy signs on people's doors. Anything that is remotely fun will do. Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted March 26, 2008 Share Posted March 26, 2008 (edited) I'm glad you think so. Here's a bunny: . Right back at you :bunny: Hope they don't have sex to quick you know how bunny's like to reproduce. Would just be a totally hopeless situation then wouldn't have any room left for my smileys what would I do lol.... Edited March 26, 2008 by SpanksTheMonkey Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted March 26, 2008 Share Posted March 26, 2008 I'm glad you think so. Here's a bunny: In other words, you have to get creative. The club/bar is probably a decent option considering what you have to work with. Take her there for some dancing. Is there a pool table there? Play some pool with her. Put goofy signs on people's doors. Anything that is remotely fun will do. Shes underage she cant get in ... Hey house how about a movie I'm thinking neither of you drive? if thats the case that can be kinda tough. Link to post Share on other sites
Author HouseOfCards Posted March 26, 2008 Author Share Posted March 26, 2008 Shes underage she cant get in ... Hey house how about a movie I'm thinking neither of you drive? if thats the case that can be kinda tough. Oh no, I can drive, I have my car on-campus, but I've always been told to be hesitant about going to a movie for a first time meeting up with a girl. Something about the 2-hour silence between the two of us that I've read is not recommended... Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted March 27, 2008 Share Posted March 27, 2008 Oh no, I can drive, I have my car on-campus, but I've always been told to be hesitant about going to a movie for a first time meeting up with a girl. Something about the 2-hour silence between the two of us that I've read is not recommended... Oh man, you must live in one of those funny countries where the legal age is like 25 or something But, YOU HAVE A CAR. That should open some doors. If the weather's good, take her on a picnic somewhere or go feed ducks. If there's snow, get yourself a couple of garbage can lids, cut the handles off, and go toboganning. Is there ANYWHERE you can go that's not too far? Link to post Share on other sites
Lovegod Posted March 27, 2008 Share Posted March 27, 2008 Something I've forgotten to mention... I've never really stated my opinion on LDRs (long distance relationships) but if you must know, I'm against them. However, it's your decision to go long periods without female contact. Since you will be seeing her once, and then she'll be gone for a long period of time, you need to make the time you spend with her VALUABLE and INTERESTING. When she's gone, she's going to need a reason to turn down other date offers from men in her town. The first date is always important, but in this case it's even more important. That first impression needs to last. An interesting, unique, fun and exciting date will make her remember it. She'll remember that date when she goes back home. She'll remember that date when some other guy asks her out. That first date (and impression) will make her WANT to see you more often, and she will find ways to do so. This is why a walk around campus and a regular dinner won't cut it. You need something that creates memories. Link to post Share on other sites
shanny Posted March 27, 2008 Share Posted March 27, 2008 I don't think you should make any conclusions or decisions until you meet her. Heck, you could meet and have no chemistry at all. Link to post Share on other sites
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