straight women, boyfriends/husbands and strip clubs

[angie2443]

I'm interested in other people's opinions.

 

I've noticed a lot of threads (not just on LS) where women have went to a strip club with their boyfriend/husband and ended up feeling hurt or resentful.

 

I'm wondering, for anyone who's been in this situation, why did you agree to go in the first place? Did you think you'd enjoy it? Were you pressured? Did you feel a need to prove you weren't "insecure"? Did you just say to yourself, "he's going to go anyway, so I might as well be there"?

 

For those women who aren't attracted to other women but have gone to a strip club with their partner and enjoyed it, what did you get out of it? I know some people enjoy their partner bieng sexual with others. Is this part of the allure?

 

Just curious.

[Pikaia]

I have went to a strip club with my boyfriend a few times. While I'm not bi, I am a bit bi-curious. This isn't really the reason I went to the strip club. I find them fun, and I enjoy watching the girls dance. I guess it's the atmosphere as well. The one strip club we went to, the girls were very acrobatic and it was an interesting show...

 

I haven't had a lapdance and I don't particularly want one. I know my boyfriend loves me and these strippers are just a way for him to have fun. There isn't a straight guy in the world who doesn't enjoy looking at half naked women dancing around. It's okay to have a little fun like that once in a while. You have to trust your s/o and know that it's always look and don't touch..