Why can't girls think for themselves?

[Poonani Maker]

Why do they have to rely on their friends to select a mate? My last girlfriend and I hit it off for a couple of weeks, but as she started consulting her girl & guy friends, she believed them about stuff they said about me, that I'm a racist (not true), that I've probably killed someone (not true), just that I'm a bad bad person all around.

 

We hugged and kissed at the airport after work at night with the wind blowing and mountains covering the last of the sun. It was truly romantic. A dude saw us and I know he was jealous and, of course, pulled her aside the next day to talk behind my back about how I'm not good for her.

 

With the bombardment to her brain about my nasty reputation, the finally cut me off, and said that she didn't want me to call, text, talk, or even look at her.

 

Of course, after a few days, she's flirting with me again, and we go in hiding to kiss. I was fired from the job we were both working at, I believe, out of jealousy from the owner, manager, co-working guys who couldn't handle that I was the only one she allowed to be with her.

 

Anyway, I got a new job, MUCH better and higher paying, and I still see her from time to time - haven't seen her since mid-February though. I miss her and will probably be seeing her in the next month or so.

 

Now that I'm in a much better position, I can tell that she has disregarded all ADVICE her weaker girlfriends and scumbag co-workers have directed her head with. She's very naive, but I think that I've made a big enough impression on her to finally start thinking for herself and go after who she wants = Me. We were born for each other. We just click, and I love her as I love myself.

 

If she doesn't know I love her by now, she's utterly lost. She said about 2 years ago that we could not marry because we don't make enough money to support kids, which she wants. That isn't the case now so far, now that I make almost triple what we used to make.

 

She looks like this chick: http://www.felicitas-fanpage.de/pictures/portraits/wol_7.jpg

The dude on the right: http://i9.tinypic.com/2rnzgax.jpg

Edited March 28, 2008 by Poonani Maker

[zicke]

Triple is very subjective.

 

Oh wait, I have to edit and ask....for serious? You need to way calm down. When I was 19 I also thought that the person I was with was my "mate for LIFE"..funny...didn't turn out that way.

 

But, did you just really post her pic for everyone on the internet to see? You seem very, I don't know....CONTROLLING??

 

She is very pretty and european looking, you look very american, take it as you will

Edited March 28, 2008 by zicke

[Poonani Maker]

But, did you just really post her pic for everyone on the internet to see? You seem very, I don't know....CONTROLLING??

 

She is very pretty and european looking, you look very american, take it as you will

That's why she's perfect for me...easily controlled...naive...almost white trash...a perfect 'fool' for me. Having said all that, she understands me, can follow my lead, and knows I am the one for her. We hike up in the mountains and just talk and lay down on the warm grass. She knows I'll protect her. She goes to church and bible class all the time, and if she doesn't like something I just said, she'll say, "I have to go read my Bible." So I always know when she disapproves of what I say or what I do.

[Replicant]

if she doesn't like something I just said, she'll say, "I have to go read my Bible."So I always know when she disapproves of what I say or what I do.

 

No wonder she can recite the bible by heart.

[InLimbo2]

Look at your thread title - why don't girls think for themselves? You don't want someone that thinks for herself - easily controlled....naive....can follow my lead.

 

That's why she's perfect for me...easily controlled...naive...almost white trash...a perfect 'fool' for me. Having said all that, she understands me, can follow my lead, and knows I am the one for her. We hike up in the mountains and just talk and lay down on the warm grass. She knows I'll protect her. She goes to church and bible class all the time, and if she doesn't like something I just said, she'll say, "I have to go read my Bible." So I always know when she disapproves of what I say or what I do.