explorer45 Posted March 28, 2008 Share Posted March 28, 2008 Hello Guys, I met this girl this year and we got off great, I started to develop feelings so did she according to her friends, I finally expressed these feelings out to an email I wrote to her. She wrote back with, this Is hard but I do like but also another guy, Kinda shocked as I didn't know what to expect. She says she has more feelings for me but she sees her self better with the other. Not knowing what to do, I said do what you want and It's hard to be in this situation at this given time, She said It can take some time. She just started developing these feelings a couple days ago and I'm worried if we go out that she still might get those feelings. Any Advice and comments welcome, Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted March 29, 2008 Share Posted March 29, 2008 Which just goes to prove that you can't be too invested in someone whom you're not officially exclusive with. You might like her and have a huge crush on her, but it does not literally mean that you should give up the better part of your life waiting for her to change her mind and feelings towards you. She's entitled to feel however she wants to feel. I thought your passive response to her was well played. It shows that you're there for her but you're not gonna be her doormat should she choose to play with both of your feelings. I recommend remaining close friends for now, let her work out her feelings and go from there. There's no need to rush into a relationship with her. Let her work out her feelings and you go do your own things. Link to post Share on other sites
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