alondra78 Posted March 30, 2008 Share Posted March 30, 2008 Alright.. so. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 8 months now. Were both 19 and go to colleges hundreds of miles away. Our relationship was always very passionate.. we visted eachother a few times and saw eachother on breaks. We talk for about 2 hours a day and text eachother etc.. She still texts and talks to me all the time but all i am simply wondering is if she cheats on me. Shes 19, goes to michigan university, goes out to bars, partys , drinks, etc... For some reason the last few weeks I have been really down just thinking of her cheating on me. Do you think most young people in ldr's cheat? There hasnt been any real evidence to think that she is but Ive just been wondering because shes living in a coed dorm, drinks often, goes to parties etc.. i love her beyond belief and she says she loves me just as much but theres just a part in my mind that knows shes cheating on me. I dont know if its paranoia or what?? any advice would be great. thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
JosieMcCoy Posted March 30, 2008 Share Posted March 30, 2008 You have no evidence,no reason to think that way, yet you do! Sounds like paranoia! Maybe if you weren't so suave, you wouldn't feel that way! Cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
dancinggal Posted March 30, 2008 Share Posted March 30, 2008 I was 20 when I started in my LDR, and now I'm 22 (so still kind of young!) I go and out and drink and dance, etc, but I've never even thought about cheating. Way too much to lose. And you guys are a lot closer and have a lot more communication than we do. So don't stress. Link to post Share on other sites
Krisa Posted March 31, 2008 Share Posted March 31, 2008 I will say this...usually if you have that gut feeling somethings not right...it means somethings not right. I really hope that's not the case...but your body knows when somethings wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
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