FormerNiceGuy Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 It's right here folks. This post was posted by Underpants from Loveshack. and it sums it all up. Are we doing this again? There is a middle ground between the nice guy and the jerk that I term the 'Genuine guy'. He knows himself and is honest and approaches relationships from a genuine and respectful standpoint. He doesn't play games, spin plates, or seek validation via the external. He has learned to embrace and control his ego. He commands respect by giving the proper partner that same respect. Overly nice guys tend to get used or just wind up resentful and lethargic of their partner. Not fun. Jerks are no fun either and attract or bring out the insecure traits of women. This combo is usually drama filled and eventually the girl cheats on him (upgrades) or dumps him in frustration. Or they have a toxic life together. Become a genuine and respectful person yourself and seek to attract the same in a romatic partner. You can't game genuineness, it is either there or it isn't. Thank you and good night! Link to post Share on other sites
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