CharlesI69 Posted July 15, 2003 Share Posted July 15, 2003 Hello there, Me and my girlfriend are perfect for each other, we laugh, we talk alot and everything, but i need advice, and fast, Every time we talk it will go off and on, one time, we wont talk, the next we will, its just like i don't have anything to talk about, i hate it, i am 15, and i want to be able to talk to my girlfriend about everything, And I TRULY love her, people say that you can't love at the age 15, but YES you can, i do love her!!!!! please help, anyone, ill take any kind of advice, thank you so much, Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted July 15, 2003 Share Posted July 15, 2003 i think talking is overrated. why can't you just enjoy whatever you're doing together quietly? Like if you're taking a walk, just walk next to each other, enjoy the view, the sounds, the smells... not at all necessary to talk incessantly. But if you really must talk, asking her about herself (anything goes - her day, her childhood, her shoes, her family, her future plans, whatever!), and also reading the news (tell her about something you've read & talk about it) may help. You can also comment on whatever's happening around you. good luck, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted July 15, 2003 Share Posted July 15, 2003 Sometimes the silence says more than words. If you two are really comfortable with each other then there doesn't have to be a verbal conversation all the time. If you find the silence uncomfortable then ask yourself why. Why do you feel you need to have constant conversation? If you are on the phone and you don't have anything left to talk about, say "I love you and I'll see you tomorrow (or whenever)" and end the conversation. If you want to talk just to hear the sound of her voice, but don't feel you have anything worthwhile to talk about -- then be honest with her and just say "I don't want to stop talking with you - I love the sound of your voice, but I don't want to bore you or tire you or maybe say something that will make you think I'm a doofus or something" and let her take it from there. Asking about her, her likes, what books she's read, what classes she has, etc. is good to keep a conversation going. Make sure you listen to what she says and use her answer to ask her more questions or to carry the conversation. If she says her favorite colore is red, tell her what red means to you, like "oh, I love red too, is so happy and passionate - just like you. Green is my favorite color because when I was little I had a favorite toy that was green and now green makes me happy. Why is red your favorite color?' Something like that Link to post Share on other sites
jackie Posted July 16, 2003 Share Posted July 16, 2003 well said hokey! /jackie takes notes Link to post Share on other sites
rosey Posted July 17, 2003 Share Posted July 17, 2003 A lot of times girls don't really like it when guys are always telling them how much they love them. I am 15 too, and most girls just want a fun bf, not saying you aren't, but they aren't really wanting to get serious. just tell her how you feel. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CharlesI69 Posted July 20, 2003 Author Share Posted July 20, 2003 Thank you, thanks to everyone who replyed to my problem, now me and my girlfriend are talking more than ever, ,thanks again Link to post Share on other sites
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