Magnatolia Posted April 3, 2008 Share Posted April 3, 2008 Hi all, I've been getting together with some people through a friend from work. There's usually new people join up each time. I suck majorly at having the confidence to indicate to a girl I fancy that I like her. I can't just tell her because A) I'm only interested in dating her to get to know her and see if we are compatable B) I feel awkward as it's a social group of people and C) I have no idea what to do. Ladies, what should I do in this situation? I was thinking maybe after meeting the person a few times I could suggest coffee after work one day? If it's just the two of us would she get an idea? Have you been in a similar situation? If so what did the guy do that you liked? Look forward to your suggestions and advice. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
yongyong Posted April 3, 2008 Share Posted April 3, 2008 if you meet someone through friends, that's a lot better than picking up women at the bar. Because if you mess up your first interview, you won't get any other chance. Through friends, you don't have to be pressured to show the best personality you have. I will keep meeting her with her friends so she can feel comfortable hanging out with you. when you hang out with her, you can do some light kinos, making her eye contact to see if she is interested. If you see some good reaction, you should ask her phone number just as friends. Do not say 'hey I've been thinking about you whole day, I think I am fall in love with you' that kinds of Shxt...... Link to post Share on other sites
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