demarr222 Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 Well im 17 years old and I just dont know if something is wrong with me or not. All my friends all have like 3 or 4 girls there messing around with, i dont know if this is wrong or not but i just dont like that. It even makes me mad on the girls part that she allows this to happen. Now when i say allow this to happen i mean that they know theyre getting used. Most all of the girls that even talk to my friends know that as soon as they have sex they will leave them and go to the next and its like thats what the girls want. My friends treat them like ***** and they still talk to them and do stuff with them. And its like this for everyone that i see really. I mean is that what wemon want, some guy that just wants to have sex with her and who doesnt care about them at all. Im pretty shy around new ppl, exspecially attractive girls and try to treat them with respect. I dont know why but im kinda sensitive to the whole thing, my favorite music and the only thing i listen to is "gangsta rap" and i still dont like it when they talk about using wemon. I mean do i respect them too much? im just trying to figure this out because it seems like all girls dont even respect themselves so how can you respect someone who dont respect themselves. Any comments or sugestions or anything would be nice. Link to post Share on other sites
Cov Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 No, you are not too nice, you are a young man of principle and ethics and it's pleasing to hear. These girls are foolish, naive and young and I'm sure when they reflect on this in later life, they'll have a few regrets. Not all women are like these women, never believe that and there are women who are attracted to these men, but then there are women who will be attracted to you. I wouldn't worry about these girls, they obviously enjoy what they are doing, if I was you, I'd concentrate on the things going on in your life. Good luck, Champ! Link to post Share on other sites
j_hunt_12 Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 (edited) Don't pay too much attention to it. You are just starting to discover that the ******* get more pussy than the nice guy, as opposed to what you probably grew up thinking. You are also starting to discover girls are also are very stupid... eventually you will get sick of being the nice guy in college or something and start to become an ******* to get laid more. It doesn't actually work like people think it does. Well, it does, but not with girls you would really want. You simply get less quality girls more often and you degrade sex to a point where it is not that special. Fun, but not special. It depends on what your preference is. Just don't forget that there are still tons of good girls out there. Hang around the good people if it bothers you that much, eventually you will see that that is just the lifestyle they choose and it is really not that big of a deal. At a certain age they get less stupid about everything and really they just start to accept the fact that sex is fun and treat it like a sport. I honestly just don't want a girl like that or one who has ever been like that. I got my girl who is a very good girl, and hot, and sweet so I'm happy. I have no problem being friends with those other types though, it's just not for me though either... peace Edited April 4, 2008 by j_hunt_12 Link to post Share on other sites
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