lbj123 Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 Well, I am officially in a relationship with a guy who lives in another state. Everything is beyond incredible. We were friends first and know each other very well, so we are very comfortable with one another and very upfront with our feelings. He is just amazing and we are so happy and speak openly about our commitment to each other and to making this work. We have been trying to see each other as much as possible, which seems to be about every three weeks, give or take. But we miss each other a lot when we are not together. We've had a lot of quite graphic phone conversations that turn both of us on tremendously. I happen to love our phone sex convos and get really really arroused from them and I know he does too...My issue though is that sometimes the words just flow, but other times I feel like I am at a loss and can't think of anything sexy to say. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can improve my dirty talk and really drive him wild?? Link to post Share on other sites
dancinggal Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 I don't have any real suggestions, but just wanted to say congratulations. I would have loved to this with my boy while we were apart. But he didn't seem to want to do anything sexual at all. Sometimes we dirty text sms each other, but its pretty tame, and I always initiate. So yeah, I'm jealous. But we've only got 18 days go! Hurray! Link to post Share on other sites
Author lbj123 Posted April 4, 2008 Author Share Posted April 4, 2008 yeah, it is a wonderful relationship and I guess I just want to be able to keep things exciting and playful. I am a pretty sexually open person, but I'm not sure why I sometimes can't describe my fantasies or desires over the phone and make it sound really hot. I'd also love suggestions on any other ways to keep our passion high and thriving when we aren't with each other. I'd love to get creative and adventurous! Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 text messages, ending the phone call with phone sex is fun. I would suggest sending texts during the day saying what you were wearing or what you would be wearing. You can even text each other before the end of the day on what to wear. Tell each other what you want to do to each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lbj123 Posted April 4, 2008 Author Share Posted April 4, 2008 can anyone share some juicy fantasies to help give me some ideas?? Link to post Share on other sites
dancinggal Posted April 4, 2008 Share Posted April 4, 2008 I'm not sure if we are allowed to on this site, but you could read some erotic fantasy (there are plenty of sites on the web that publish this sort of thing) to get some ideas. Link to post Share on other sites
sugarsoul Posted April 6, 2008 Share Posted April 6, 2008 it's alright, it happens to me too! I think the trick is to have other forms of dirty talk as well... such as webcam or texting. Personally, I feel the most sexiest on webcam, it's even more arousing because you get to really tease him visually hope this helps Link to post Share on other sites
sugarsoul Posted April 6, 2008 Share Posted April 6, 2008 can anyone share some juicy fantasies to help give me some ideas?? go on literotica.com on their story section Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted April 7, 2008 Share Posted April 7, 2008 can anyone share some juicy fantasies to help give me some ideas?? Imagination! you can even get very graphic and descriptive! I've included what color lingerie she should be wearing before I get home to just get ready to answer the door in nothing but her robe and I'll take care of the rest. Link to post Share on other sites
psmexx Posted April 7, 2008 Share Posted April 7, 2008 You could try calling some cheap phone sex chat lines to see how the operators talk dirty. Try asking for some advice there. Link to post Share on other sites
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