What should I do to keep her?

[Scott2004]

There's this girl in my life, we've been together for about a year. Everything has been going perfect until recently. She's been going on these trips for about a week at a time, she comes back for a week and then goes back again. She just came back from Philadelphia for 4 days. Everything was fine before she left. I've seen her 2 days since she's been back and something has just seemed wrong.

 

I asked her "are you losing interest in me" and she said "I dont know." She blamed her weirdness on her period. Then I asked her "am I losing you" and she said "i dont know." So we just sat there for a while and when I left, (while hugging her and kissing her goodnight) I asked her "is this was the last time I would ever get to hold you" like this and she said "for now, no."

 

This girl means so much to me. I have saved her life before. I jumed in front of a car to push her out of the way. I didn't care about my safety and I got her out of the way to safety. She would've been killed.

 

I'm 99.9% certain she's not cheating on me. She swore to me that she would never cheat on me. So why all the sudden this sudden loss of interest.

 

Somebody please help. I would literally die for this girl. PLEASE HELP.

[reenie]

Sorry hun but it looks like you are loosing her. If at any point a guy ever asked me if I were loosing interest in him my answer was "I dont know" I know it should have been "yes, but im waiting for something else to come along." Dont let her make you her tag along. Play her game. Dont be around simply cause she wants you to be there. I know you love her and its hard to be mean when you want to see her so much. Also next time she is supposed to be "away" drive by her house just to see if she is there. Maybe she isnt cheating, but it definately sounds like she is distancing herself and being with you when the terms are right for her. Good luck, be safe, God bless.