purplepoodle Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Oh then by all means you need to PM me your myspace my dear. How did you feel after you did it? "conjunction junction....what's you function?" Link to post Share on other sites
tealeafbud Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 very very bad. I know it wasn't worth it. I felt stupid for checking it. And then last night I had this dream about snuggling her, and woke up very sad and cried for about 30 seconds. I just hope you and FarBehind keep battling it out. stay strong! OMG i totally didn't mean to hijack this thread. i figure that pic will go up as soon as I post on LS tomorrow sometime. Link to post Share on other sites
purplepoodle Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 I'm sorry sweetie, I know it's rough. He IMd me again yesterday and it breaks my heart every time. Eh, I'm sure YYY won't mind. He may not even notice. Link to post Share on other sites
ioncebelieved Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Oh my!!!! Man oh man!!! I am a long term lurker first time poster here and I have been reading this thread for several days and I actually feel sorry for Y Y Y!! I am guilty of letting someone get the best of me too, as I have spent the last two years of my life going through my own misery. I am sure most of us here have been in similar situations. I must admit, I was this bad before and I am getting better each passing day. It takes a long time to finally get over that special person we loved. Problem generally lies within mostly as the person is not the person we want, BUT THE PERSON WE WANT THEM TO BE. When that day finally comes and you know that this person IS NEVER GOING to be who we want them to be, you will be much better off. I, like why why why, have bugged the hell out of people with my mess. I truly feel for you man! I can definitely give advice better than take it, so here it is: Y Y Y, you are going to wind up beating yourself down more if you continue down the path you are allowing her to control. I know you are thinking this is your soul mate and you will never find anyone like her and the two of you were meant to be....however, it is normal up to a point to think this, but you are letting this woman beat you down and it should be an embarassment, it should be a pride killer and it defies your common sense! I know you love this undeserving soul, as I still love the woman that has caused me misery for so very long. It will continue as long as she knows who has the power!! You my friend need to disappear for a long while! Good luck and I truly feel for you!! Link to post Share on other sites
v33 Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 I feel for the guy too, because I can relate, TO A POINT. They guy had way too much of his happiness and security and identity tied up in his relationship to this woman. It plain hurts when anyone cheats and leaves you but if you make someone your entire life.... I don't care if you are married, soulmates, have a legal contract, blood oath, whatever.... you cannot invest your entire self and purpose into someone else, because they can ALWAYS leave you. Nothing in life is for sure except your own integrity and character. If you can learn to rely on that, well then, baby, no-one can hurt you. Link to post Share on other sites
wowIlose Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 lol YYY do you even read advice on here...? I swear I can just imagine some scruffy unshaven guy rocking back and forth in his chair that hasn't showered for 6 days reading his loveshack posts, while smoking a cigarette and drinking a 40 of vodka straight out of the bottle no chaser cursing his EX under his breath while he scans through all the advice and just decides to rant more and go off... totally spiraling out of control... I know its not entirely related but this kind of behavior reminds me of the song "Kim" by eminem, anyone that knows the song would agree.... what a perfect song for you YYY... *disclaimer* I dont recommend listening to this song if your easily disturbed.. Link to post Share on other sites
roghornio Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 lol YYY do you even read advice on here...? I swear I can just imagine some scruffy unshaven guy rocking back and forth in his chair that hasn't showered for 6 days reading his loveshack posts, while smoking a cigarette and drinking a 40 of vodka straight out of the bottle no chaser cursing his EX under his breath while he scans through all the advice and just decides to rant more and go off... totally spiraling out of control... I know its not entirely related but this kind of behavior reminds me of the song "Kim" by eminem, anyone that knows the song would agree.... what a perfect song for you YYY... *disclaimer* I dont recommend listening to this song if your easily disturbed.. He's winding you all up... Link to post Share on other sites
LikeCharlotte Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 lol YYY do you even read advice on here...? I swear I can just imagine some scruffy unshaven guy rocking back and forth in his chair that hasn't showered for 6 days reading his loveshack posts, while smoking a cigarette and drinking a 40 of vodka straight out of the bottle no chaser cursing his EX under his breath while he scans through all the advice and just decides to rant more and go off... totally spiraling out of control... I know its not entirely related but this kind of behavior reminds me of the song "Kim" by eminem, anyone that knows the song would agree.... what a perfect song for you YYY... *disclaimer* I dont recommend listening to this song if your easily disturbed.. Y almost has resolution. He will need angry songs soon enough. Link to post Share on other sites
Far Behind Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Purple! I loved schoolhouse rock songs. I definitely need to relive some of those. "I'm just a Bill" was awesome! Anyhoo, not to hijack this thread, but I'm sure YYY won't mind. I caved in on the bet. I sent a message to Mel also. So soon I'll be posting my message and putting up that "L" pic on my myspace for a span of 24 hours, not a second more. hahah Since we're hi-jacking...I show that in school sometimes (teach 5th grade history)! Then this year, I found something even funnier...using the animation from that, some high school seniors did one to Soulja Boy, called Pass that Bill, it's hilarious. Found it on youtube and the kids LOVED it. Hi-jack complete. Return to rant now. Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 YYY I really think you need some help! Seriously dude you are far too angry and it is worrying! Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 I swear I can just imagine some scruffy unshaven guy rocking back and forth in his chair that hasn't showered for 6 days reading his loveshack posts, while smoking a cigarette and drinking a 40 of vodka straight out of the bottle no chaser cursing his EX under his breath while he scans through all the advice and just decides to rant more and go off... totally spiraling out of control... lol... now THAT was funny... I would have offered advice a long time ago, but he doesn't want to follow any. So instead, I sit back, and watch this guy careen out of control. I did want to ask Trips a question here.. You're so firm on wanting to see her again.. Why? What is seeing her again going to accomplish?? Link to post Share on other sites
LikeCharlotte Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 I'm sorry you all had to witness this. heh Don't apologize to me. Your break up has made me feel sane and validated. You used LS to help you. Keep using it. Don't be sorry for using whatever means available to cope. Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 I worry that he is not coping at all! Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Dude, You keep saying "if I don't hear from her by, tomorrow I'm done", then to keep extending it to the next day. She has you wrapped around her little cheating finger. You are her little biatch and she is at best mildly entertained by it all. The more you yell and rant at her the more ammunition you give her to label you the crazy one and validate (in her mind) her reasons for cheating or dumping you. Jeez, don't give her that kind of power. By taking away all attention, all contact and response to contact she NO longer can continue to lie to you, stir you up further and for goodness sakes another chance to cheat on you again. It is not fair and you won't be able to reason with her. The only thing you can do is show her by ignoring her the consequences of her behavior. Losing you. Can you understand that? She cheated, she lied, she continues to lie. What more do you need to know? She has shown you her character. Where is yours? Scrape it off your shoe and walk on dude. Look at it this way. She is Mr. Wonderful's problem now. One less thing. Link to post Share on other sites
serendip Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Oh yeah, it's Mr. Wonderful's birthday tomorrow, so this will be a factor. How do you know this? Dude, are you still reading her emails and stalking her every move. It's a very healthy thing to do...keep it up. </rolls eyes> Link to post Share on other sites
serendip Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 YYY wrote from other thread I need to yell at you about lying about your flight being canceled. I ****ing hate you so much. I wanna choke the ****ing life out of you. Seriously...I know you are just saying things. But this is beyond the scope of LS. SEEK HELP!!! Link to post Share on other sites
ioncebelieved Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Only you know that Y Y Y, "if she doesn't call, I wont even be her friend." I did the same crap you did!!! I told myself silly things like if she doesn't do this and doesn't do that. I am sort of confused...it doesn't take much these days, but is triple Y and why why why the same person? I would assume yes, buy why Y Y Y are using two profiles? Link to post Share on other sites
wowIlose Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 the guy is starting to sound like a troll... Link to post Share on other sites
frd150 Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Triple Y, Listen dude, what I meant was by reacting in the way you are you are giving her what she wants. Yes, F-her or whatever but by going off on her your achieving nothing but frustration for yourself. Obviously she is what she is but by reacting you stooping to her pathetic level. Ahhhhh Geeeeez i dunno:rolleyes:. Im still dealing with my own ish but ill tell you what Im living my life well and she has taken notice. So either way I win. DO THE SAME for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Let me get this straight. She cheated on you and left you for someone else.You're now demanding her to cheat back with you and are frothing because she's jacking you around.What's wrong with this picture Y? Walk...away... Link to post Share on other sites
ioncebelieved Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Let me get this straight. She cheated on you and left you for someone else.You're now demanding her to cheat back with you and are frothing because she's jacking you around. What's wrong with this picture Y? Walk...away... Walk away hell, RUN!! I know it easier said than done. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 It's kinda like watching a car burn on the side of the road. There's no hope, but people stop and look anyway Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 This can be over...RIGHT...NOW....if you would step away from it. Link to post Share on other sites
wowIlose Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Your building yourself up for this midnight thing.... You need to start forcing yourself to do what you used to once consider fun without your girlfriend.. watching tv, video games, reading, sports whatever floats your boat, the more engaging it is the less you think about her.. This relationship is over, she won't want you back dude, look at yourself... no one wants someone this unstable emotionally as a boyfriend or girlfriend, put yourself in her shoes for two minutes... Its hard man, I know.. I suffered from something like this for my first couple weeks post break up.. though I kept my rage and anger down by working out and engulfed myself in my work.. which lead to a promotion. I hang out with friends and expanded my social circle and though I still miss her and think about the past I am glad this happened because its made me a better person and thats how you need to look at things. Don't make things worse , you will only regret it.. she will push you so far out of her life that she won't ever want anything to do with you.. and when you finally come down and years have passed you'll look back and wished you didn't take things to the extreme.. Link to post Share on other sites
tkgirl Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Maybe he likes the drama? ya think? Link to post Share on other sites
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