would you get a boob job for your boyfriend?

[cute_n_crazy]

hi... im new here... hehehe.... i have a question for all of you ladies... would you ever get a boob job for your boyfriend? i was reading about it in the aug. issue of cosmo. i just wanted to see what others think....

 

personally, i wouldnt do it.... what about you?

[Starlight43]

hahaha. nah, can't say that I'd do it.

[longlegzs80]

I don't think so. I am a very tall, slender women, who has curves that are very purportionate with my whole body. And anyways, boobs would look way too ackward.

 

I just think is any man worth getting a boob job for? No. If a guy can't handle the fact that I have little NUBBENS, so be it. I will find a guy who will appreciate them the size that they are.

[PurpleAngel]

umm... mmm.. lets see now... this is a hard one, umm... NO!

[Heidi2]

Absolutely NOT!!!

 

Under no direction, bribe, or plee would I ever consider such a thing!!! Nor should you... You should be happy what your 'momma' gave you!!!

[Cariel]

Not on your life!

 

Reminds me of a comic's remark once about this subject: "Men like beer, too. Are you going to have a tap installed?"

 

'Nuff said *G*

[Just A Girl2]

NOT! LOL

 

I would never, ever, ever, EVER change anything about my body (which of course includes risky surgery, of which the surgery to insert implants definitely IS) for any man. Other than the fact that I love who I am and if a guy I'm with doesn't like me the way I am, f*ck him......I see no attraction in walking around with bags of saline in my chest, which always look horribly fake and unnatural. Reminds me of the girls in junior high who would stuff kleenex into their training bras to appear more endowed LOL

[Tony T]

I've have personal knowledge of at least five young ladies who were flat as a pancake. After their breast augmentation surgery, their self esteem and self image shot up off the charts. There was a major and positive change in their personalities and their feelings about themselves.

 

Even though I like to see a feel and nice set of tatas, I've always been amused about the preoccupation with them, on the part of both most males and many females. There are men who much prefer to talk to a woman's boobs rather than look her in the face.

 

I'm not a female but it seems that at least some have complexes about the size of their breasts and the surgery helps a lot...just like other types of plastic surgery.

 

Of course, any kind of surgery has its risks but there are some people...like the ones who have the stomach staples done...who actually risk their lives to feel better about themselves. God bless them!.

 

Choices...it's nice to have them.

[jalexy]

i had a breast reduc for both him and i, mostly me of course though. still a boob job.......but to each their own=)

[Just A Girl2]

Tony, in regards to the gals you know who were flatter 'n pancakes who had boob jobs, that resulted in raising their self esteem. Okay, sure. But where does it stop? Don't we ALL have something about our body that we're self conscious about?.....that we may try to conceal or what have you? I can't help but think it's just a real big shame, largely as a result of society/the media/fashion mags/porn/men, that women can't just accept themselves the way God made them. A shame that our self esteem comes from our appearance, or how we feel we're being perceived. A shame self esteem can't come from within, from who we are as people.

[Ally Boo]

I dont know about getting one for a man, but I've NOT gotten one for guys. Some guys say that fake boobs feel like knees. If that's the case (and of course, I haven't felt any on my OWN), then I'll probably not get them...if he hates them THAT much. I'm fine with my boobs either way. At one point, I said I'd have them done, but after having a few surgeries of my own, I dont think I want that kinda pain. lol

[Tony T]

There are a lot of things in life that are a shame...but there they are. I think it's great that boob jobs are available for women who want them and whose self esteem is enhanced by having them. Life is just a lot of choices and it's nice they are there in most cases.

 

I also think it's great that cardiac bypass operations are available to make to passage ways to the heart rather than die.

 

If I were a female, had limited funds and had to choose between boobs or a bypass...I think I would have the bypass.

[cindy0039]

There's a big difference between getting a boob job for a guy and getting one because you're flat as a pancake and want it to feel better for yourself...big difference! Don't let anyone tell you what to do. Do what's best for you.

[Gray]

1. I honestly think smaller is coming back in, but maybe thats just me.

 

2. I saw some special where they showed you EVERYTHING about breast enlargement surgery... oh god. Knowing they were fake, i would have serious issues touching them. Ugh, seriously the video scarred me for life (no pun intended).

[jalexy]

i think that if there was no such thing as airbrushing and celebrities who are female showing everything they have on their body.......all women in this world would love themselves 10 times more.

[michellechgo]

Hmmm,

 

Nope, never not on his life. My personal goal is to avoid having surgey at all if it is possible and to have an elective surgury for a boyfriend is out of the question. The fact that men even ask their women to do such a thing is amazing.

 

Michelle

[quankanne]

i wouldn't do anything just because a man asked me to, in terms of "fixing" myself "up," though if I were flat-chested and thought implants would make me feel better about myself, I'd seriously consider it. BUT, since I've got the opposite problem, I am continually amazed at some of these women with nice figures decide that they need porno boobs! Look at Pammy Anderson -- she had a modest figure when she started out on TV show "Home Improvement."

 

At some point, she had augmentation done (looked a little trashy to me) but had the implants removed about the time she had her kids. Then she hooked up with rockstar boyfriend number two, got her implants back but hers look bigger than mine and I'm chunky to begin with! Why on earth would a woman in her right mind want to take on breasts the size of small melons?

 

I've heard horror stories by women about how the weight of the huge bosoms causes headaches, neck aches and back pain, and sometimes leg pains, too, because their backs are out of whack -- and these gals came by their big busts naturally. It floors me to see someone like Pam Anderson, who is so dainty looking to begin with, aquire a set of huge implants and willingly keep them ... unless they're filled with helium or something?

 

if a man I dated felt that implants were the way to go, I'd suggest that he go purchase a pair and use them on himself!

[Curt]

Well, I for one would prefer that the woman I love be natural as the day she was born.

 

Actually, I think it would be worrisome to me if I thought that she was down on herself because of her chest size. I would want her to explore why...long before ANY decision for augmentation.

 

The measure of a woman is not determined by her cup size.

 

 

Peace

 

Curt

[moimeme]

I think it is a real sad commentary that any woman would feel she needed to add fake junk to her body in order to have self-esteem.

 

And then what if you are flat-chested, go spend thousands (and potentially, your health) on a boob job and then find out that the guy you really want likes little ones? Oh, yes, my friends, there are fellows who like the 'itty bitty' kind. Again, there are a lot of websites devoted to this.

 

When do you suppose people will start to figure out that not everybody likes the exact same thing?

[cenilla]

implants? yur man asks you to do so? tell him buy himself a blow-up doll!

[ArdeaCandidissima]

Heck no, let him buy his pectoral inserts himself. I ain't paying his bills.

 

And I'm not shelling out for his chest hair transplant, either...

[friendly lonely]

Please say your not still with this guy! Besides- don't do anything to yourself if your not going to be with this guy forever, different guys like different body types. A lot, honestly a lot of guys love small chests, even check the net, theres sites proving it. The guy you end up with might like small ones, or something that is very common is hating implants. It seems like the person is totally fake, and has no self confidence. What you should do is look very hard in the mirror, you'll see flat, but still look deeper, see how graceful, and elegant you look, see what I see in those women very easily.

 

Most guys in relationships are insecure about themselves, so even if they love your small chest they wont admit it, letting you think there is something that they are just nice enough to put up with. Its kind of common.People shouldn't care about looks, some people say you have to be attracted to someone in order to love them, but I say looks are only a very small part of attraction. Love yourself, and that is what good guys like me will like.I cant even get a date to save my life, and I am only slightly over weight. women are just as critical, hopefully someone will be able to see through that.Thanks for listening- Be proud.

[Skittles]

Originally posted by cute_n_crazy

would you ever get a boob job for your boyfriend?

 

 

 

......I don't think he would want one........hahaha

 

 

 

No seriously....

 

Maybe I would get one for myself If I felt I desperately needed one to feel good about myself.

But I don't feel I need any kind of "job" to know that I am present and counted for in this world.

 

..and I am OK with what I was born with....though I could use a little more time working out.

 

 

 

getting lazy................

[Arabess]

I don't want MORE or LESS.....I just wish they were still perky!

[Skittles]

Girl ...I'm gonna say you probably don't get any complaints

 

I know about the perky thing. though..but I tell ya, the right conductor driving my train would make them lovin' mommas stand up and salute.......yeehaa