GreenGold Posted July 19, 2003 Share Posted July 19, 2003 I am curious on where people stand on the following question: When one realises that the person they are with is ‘not the one’ (i.e. marriage, not the Matrix) should one stay with that person? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 19, 2003 Share Posted July 19, 2003 YOU ASK: "When one realises that the person they are with is ‘not the one’ (i.e. marriage, not the Matrix) should one stay with that person?" It depends on whether you've got something better to do. If you're getting some of your needs met, I guess it's OK to hang around until you meet someone else. However, if you are in a commited relationship and you remain with that person despite your opinion he/she is wrong for you, you should be commited. It's also a good idea to hang around them if they owe you money. Once you leave, you can bet you won't get your money back. Link to post Share on other sites
PurpleAngel Posted July 19, 2003 Share Posted July 19, 2003 I think that if you realize they are not right for you its probably really important for you to think about why you are staying in the relationship. I don’t think its really fair to stay with someone until you find someone else, or stay with them cos you have nothing better to do. That’s really selfish! They may really feel for you and you are not giving them the opportunity to move on and find someone that does want them fully and wants to create a life with them so basically I think, NO, you shouldn’t stay with them, I don’t think you should commit to someone you don’t want FULLY. You own the person at least that respect. How awful to know that someone had committed to you cos, they have got no one else better to go to. People should have some more character these days and stand on their own two feet! But that’s just my two cents worth! Link to post Share on other sites
Just A Girl2 Posted July 19, 2003 Share Posted July 19, 2003 Totally agree w/ Purple Angel Link to post Share on other sites
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