JessieKay05 Posted July 19, 2003 Share Posted July 19, 2003 Ok here goes... I was dating Travis for almost two years. I broke up with him b/c I felt like I was hanging w/ him more than my friends. Friends are important to me. So I took a break. He kept begging me to take him back. So finally I told him I'd give him another chance and he blew me off, but not completely. He gave me the cold shoulder. He said "I need time to think, it's not you it's me." What does that mean? How should I take that? I love him, and he loves me, and he like kisses me everytime he see's me and tells me he loves me and misses me. So what should I think of that? I mean what does it all mean? Link to post Share on other sites
yagottahelp Posted July 20, 2003 Share Posted July 20, 2003 Well number one, did u take him back because he was annoying you, or because you wanted to take him back? Also, this is the same exact thing you did to him. I'm not saying it makes it right, but if anything you should understand exactly where he is coming from. You have to give him space, or if you choose not to, just think how you felt when he did certain things. Good luck with everything.......in the mean time, you should really think if this is someone you really want to be with, or if it was just running back to something that was available. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 20, 2003 Share Posted July 20, 2003 YOU ASK: ""I need time to think, it's not you it's me." What does that mean? How should I take that?" It's just a very immature power play. He was begging you back. Now that you decided to take him back he's wanting to turn the tables. Screw him. Go look for a mature MAN who won't play these kinds of stupid games. Part of the problem, too, is that immature people always want what they can't have so as long as you were refusing to go back with him he was willing to beg. Now that you can consented to see him again, you aren't nearly as attractive a package. Again, screw the baby he is. Link to post Share on other sites
Nazima Posted July 20, 2003 Share Posted July 20, 2003 I agree with Tony. This guy is playing games, I think it was just the chase, and he was just trying to turn the tables on you to make himself feel better by being the dumper instead the dumpee. Go find a real man. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JessieKay05 Posted July 20, 2003 Author Share Posted July 20, 2003 Thanks Tony and Nazima Link to post Share on other sites
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