Have I lost my man card?

[ktmrider]

Ready for it? It has already started.

last night I just could roll over and hug her before we went to sleep. Thinking of the PA between her and the other guy just burns me inside. The thought of another man having access to her body is driving off the wall. When I have these thoughts, i get so angry.

 

But in the morning before leaving for work, I kissed her when she woke up.

 

These thought are very detrimental to the rebuilding process because when I'm angry, I don't think straight and would do something stupid. Heck, I'm thinking of going to the guy's house and kick his ass. I'm thinking of bring my wife's younger brother with me too to help me out just in case I need it. See....I'm having bad thoughts again....I'm having a small panic attack right now just thnking about it....

[TrustInYourself]

Ready for it? It has already started.

last night I just could roll over and hug her before we went to sleep. Thinking of the PA between her and the other guy just burns me inside. The thought of another man having access to her body is driving off the wall. When I have these thoughts, i get so angry.

 

But in the morning before leaving for work, I kissed her when she woke up.

 

These thought are very detrimental to the rebuilding process because when I'm angry, I don't think straight and would do something stupid. Heck, I'm thinking of going to the guy's house and kick his ass. I'm thinking of bring my wife's younger brother with me too to help me out just in case I need it. See....I'm having bad thoughts again....I'm having a small panic attack right now just thnking about it....

 

Yeah those feelings are hell. They can burn your entire marriage down if you let them control your actions, thoughts.

 

You are perfectly justified feeling like kicking his ass. It would be easy enough, but really think about it. Is it worth it? The guy is just happened to be around when your wife was hurting. He's the consolation prize, you are her husband. If your wife wants the consolation prize, then she's not worth your time, man. Take care, be strong and I'll be thinking of you.